I feel bad.
I'm female, 19. This guy at college liked me, i was in no way attracted to him, and before long he kept giving me all of his attention, he cares about everything i did, he took an interest in my life, he complimented me non stop, made me feel like a princess... But i still didn't fancy him much.
After a while another girl started liking him, this made me jealous.. i couldn't believe it! Why would I be jealous when I didn't fancy him? Well, it was honestly because I liked the attention he gave me and i grew used to it, i didnt want it taken away.. even though i still didnt fancy him.
Fast forward 4 months, and we're together still. And do I fancy him? no! But i'm very very jealous. I'm staying with him because i hate the thought of him giving another girl all his attention, treating her like he treats me.
I'm so confused, what does it mean? Why am I being like this? I'm not happy, I don't love or fancy him, but the thought of him being with someone else hurts me beyond belief. Am I horrible?
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I'm with him because I don't want anyone else to have him. watch
- Thread Starter
- 25-07-2009 23:16
- 25-07-2009 23:55
Yes you are pretty twisted tbh.
- 26-07-2009 00:02
Your giving him false hope. In the four months he could had got over you and done something decent with his live.
- 26-07-2009 00:03
You need to do what is right, stringing him along for the attention is the wrong thing to do, we cant always be the centre of attention.
- 26-07-2009 00:06
He sounds like a nice guy and you're completely screwing him over.
Do the decent thing and let him go.
- 26-07-2009 00:11
Do this: <- you being the one with that stick, and boy being the red ball.
- 26-07-2009 00:14
You've got some serious issues. I think dumping the boy would be a good start seeing as "he's mine, all mine lol" is a poor reason to be in a relationship.