why do i only like men bad for me?

...? Hope it will change? lol. You don't need to "hope" for anything. Your control who you date. Don't jump right in, and try and figure them out first. So you can be sure your "taste" in the guy is what you are looking for.

Because you're a typical female.

you probably let them treat you like crap
you sound like a nice girl... but nice girls get **** all over.
time to wise up.

I consider myself a very emotional caring person and wold love to have a long term meaningful relationship. Recently i have realised that the only guys i have feelings for are the ones that im completely incompatible with. My last 2 exes have treated me like crap, not tried to understand or be patient with me when i have a problem, so fun loving that they ignore problems and how their actions hurt other people as long as they are enjoying what they are doing. They are shallow and selfish, arrogant, fickle.

Yet even when they treat me like crap i still desire them and want them to come back to me . People who are decent, i really like but im just not sexually attracted to them, no romantic feelings there. im only interested in those that i seem to get hurt by. I am a caring person and i wouldn't ever cheat or manipulate or hurt someone deliberately.

Why would i be like this? i am really hoping that with time my taste in men will change.. Its as if i want to get hurt by men.. which i dont..

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