I've been single for about 3 years now, I'm 20 and an alright looking, confident woman. But I've been single so long I've almost stopped looking for anything romantically. I have lots of male friends and I do often flirt with them but it never really enters my mind to take it further with them.
I don't know what to do, I need to reprogram my mind into taking things further with guys I like rather than just falling into the friend zone. Should I kiss a few frogs or just wait until it happens by itself?
Got in a rut Watch
- Thread Starter
- 26-07-2009 14:48
- 26-07-2009 14:52
Continue flirting, but not with everyone or else that puts people off a relationship knowing you're a bit of a ****. Engage in a bit of physical contact and guys will quickly get the message. We always do
- 26-07-2009 15:01
id suggest that waiting for it to happen and kissing a few frogs arent mutually exclusive. most people tend to find their newest other half by getting off with them randomly and then deciding to keep it up. Dont get together with anyone you dont particularly fancy but dont automatically rule out the suggestion because your out of practise so to speak,youve just got to learn to say "yeah why not" in your head more often.
oh and not getting with someone cos they are your "friend" is a terrible excuse, if youve got a lot of guy friends chances are one of them at least really fancys you.
- 26-07-2009 15:02
Also, a 20 year old woman...you've got to be pretty fugly for guys to not fancy you
- 26-07-2009 15:06
it depends if you're really that bothered about starting a realtionship really doesnt it? I'm 21 and single at the mo, and was thinking the exact same thing not too long ago, but reallised I'm really not too bothered anyway