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been out of a real relationship for four years watch

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    Im almost 19 years old, male and im a virgin. When I was younger in my teens I had two longish relationships and another shorter one where I did everything but sex, I was offered to have sex by my girlfriend at the time but I said no, I wanted to lose it to someone I really loved. After I broke up with her I literally haven't had anything what so ever relationship wise. I don't think that im unattractive.

    I get a fair bit of female attention, girls look at me for long periods of time alot, I ve had girls approach me in a sort of indirect way. But apart from getting off with girls in clubs and then leaving them i ve had nothing. Now im going into my second year at uni im feeling pretty annoyed about the whole situation but I cant really see what had changed and whats wrong.

    There is nothing wrong, there are more then a few people in the same position then yourself. Its a good thing that you are saving yourself for someone you love, it will mean more that way.

    You have just been unlucky in the fact that you havent met someone that you have connected with since you last relationships, dont let this get you down, just keep on getting out with people and seeing what happens.
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