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    I met a guy a few weeks ago, he told his friend that he liked me and the friend told me. For the first few days, he text and rang me and was pretty flirty, then i didnt really speak to him much for a bit, then on msn he told me he liked me and i pretty much told him i liked him too.

    I saw him on tuesday and spent most of the day with him and he was very flirty and hinted about liking me. That night, i spoke to him on msn and he was carrying on as he had been. I was supposed to see him a couple of days later but our plans didnt work out because we both had other things that came up.

    I've spoken to him a couple of times on msn since and he just doesnt seem the same. Not unfriendly at all, but just not as flirty as before and i'm convincing myself he's gone off me. He hasn't done anything to suggest he has, but he just doesn't quite seem how he was before.

    I want to talk to him but i don't want to seem too forward... any ideas about what i should do? I've always been insecure about myself and never accept that people like me because i just can't see why they would :o: His friend said he's sure he still likes me but i just don't know. It's making me feel depressed because i just want to see him again and i want him to like me...

    Any thoughts/ideas would be appreciated
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    (I felt a bit left out...)
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    either get over ur insecurity and date him - nothing so bad comes from trying, or .....

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