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    I've been in EXACTLY the same situation. Too insecure at the time to accept a certain guy could like me, or like me for a sustained amount of time. Even after more than a month I still wasn't convinced, and like you, when he would simply act normal and not as overly flirty as he sometimes could be, i'd think "omg, he doesn't like me anymore, it's over", when in reality he clearly can't be 24/7 crazy flirty right.
    So unless he's found out something about you, I'm sure he still likes you. But make sure you somehow show him you still like him too. Like someone said, guys will get bored of the 'chase' if it drags on for too long and gets tedious without any sign of a 'victory'. Because of my whole erratic, nonchalent behaviour, that's exactly how I ruined it, despite the fact this guy did actually like me. You just gotta switch your mindset to realising that unless the situation changes differently (e.g. you do something crazy, or he finds someone else) that he probably still likes you.. Just like how you still like him. If you can't do that, just don't let what you think have any effect on your actions. Keep dropping him hints that you like him!!
    Or you know...

    Ask him?
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    dont ask him?
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    Kill him?
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    Ask ham?
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    I think you should































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    (Original post by thelancastrian)
    Ask Jeeves?
    Beat me to it

    Ask him?
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    Ask Michael Winner?
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    Ask him?
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    When in doubt, ask Google.

    http://img2.allposters.com/images/CAMB/27633.jpg

    Google says "Ask him?"

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    mmmmmmm..........i think u should actually




    ASK HIM!!!!!
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    Ask him?
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    oh what the heck.... ask him?
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    http://www.askoxford.com/
 
 
 
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