Alone again

DONT DO IT! For Heavens sake, don't email him, leave it a few days, then when you next see him, act as if nothing happened between you.

Well, the guy I was seeing told me today that he didn't think he was ready for a relationship.....

I know we'd only been together for a week but I really liked him and thought he really liked me too

He said he was worried to tell me as he thought I'd be really cross, which I'm not, well I'm annoyed because I had such good expectations, and because I really liked him, and I hope that I didn't do anything to cause him to feel like that.

I'm actually feeling really upset right now, which is odd as we hadn't been together long, but I just liked him so much..

Also there were a few things that I now wish I'd asked and said to him when he told me, so am thinking of just sending him a quick email....nothing heavy or anything, just saying that i hope i didn't do anything to upset him, that i don't want him to feel bad, that he's a lovely guy and maybe if he changes his mind he knows where to find me....I just tried to brush over it when he told me and we didn't really talk about it, and I don't want him to think I'm happy about it or anything

Ruthie xx

I wouldnt email him
ANd do like me...after dumping 7 guys I thought it was better that I shouldnt get into another relationship....and advantages of being single are immeasurable

Give up oon guys...they're not worth it

they're better than girls

the email thing makes u seem a little desperate

just have sex with his best friend. He'll soon regret leaving you.

welll usually its the men that are indifferent and uncaring

its usually the women who have to know everything the man is thinking and think they own their bfs.

Hmmm.....

Well I sent the email, didn't make it too over the top or anything, and at least this way it's easier for him than if i phoned him or something....

Hopefully he'll reply, but I just wanted to tell him a couple of things and didn't want to regret not telling him...if it was the other way round and got the email, i'd be pleased that i wasn't being ignored and that there were no hard feelings etc.

Ruthie xx

EDIT: why did i build my hopes up

do you think you could have this argument somewhere else? it's hardly the thing i most want to see right now

Ruthie xx

ure gonna be agonising over his reply 4 ages

hes probably showing it to his mates and saying 'haha look how desperate she is.' That is, if he's evil. Which it sounds like he must be if hes rejecting you
good save metta

Oh well thanks...

For your information he's a really nice guy, and I'm not sure quite how to take the last bit of what you said....

Ruthie xx

EDIT: Just seen the white writing so i suppose it was a compliment! Just feeling a bit rubbish at the mo

This'll boost your ego

RP, you are, without doubt, the best TSR member i know who has between 2300 and 2400 posts

Well, the guy I was seeing told me today that he didn't think he was ready for a relationship.....

I know we'd only been together for a week but I really liked him and thought he really liked me too

He said he was worried to tell me as he thought I'd be really cross, which I'm not, well I'm annoyed because I had such good expectations, and because I really liked him, and I hope that I didn't do anything to cause him to feel like that.

I'm actually feeling really upset right now, which is odd as we hadn't been together long, but I just liked him so much..

Also there were a few things that I now wish I'd asked and said to him when he told me, so am thinking of just sending him a quick email....nothing heavy or anything, just saying that i hope i didn't do anything to upset him, that i don't want him to feel bad, that he's a lovely guy and maybe if he changes his mind he knows where to find me....I just tried to brush over it when he told me and we didn't really talk about it, and I don't want him to think I'm happy about it or anything

Ruthie xx

I wouldnt email him
ANd do like me...after dumping 7 guys I thought it was better that I shouldnt get into another relationship....and advantages of being single are immeasurable

Give up oon guys...they're not worth it