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    Hey people!

    Basically a mate is having a bbq next weekend and some of his uni mates are going to be there. One of them is this girl who supposedly is 'interested' in me.
    Problem is the last time i saw her, i didn't really say much to her and apparently she was disappointed.

    So, I have a second chance - does anyone have any advice etc as to how to deal with the situation?

    Last time I had recently been dumped and lacked confidence...now I feel more confident regarding girls!
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    Get your d*** out! :awesome:
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    She was dissapointed because she wanted to get to know YOU. Don't feel the need to impress her just actually natural have a good time and a laugh, she will love that, be relaxed. Don't be afraid.
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    Be yourself. Easy.
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    Go up, introduce, conversation, chill.
    Just be relaxed...
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    just open a conversation with something interesting
    like
    "my sister is having her birthday. ideas for presents?"
    "im thinking of getting my ear pierced. would it work with me?"
    "you've been to clubs right. when a guy offers to buy you a drink, what's the first thing that comes to your head"

    i made this up on the spot, just think of a spontaneous conversation opener and take it from there, everything will come natural
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    (Original post by ps2mint)
    Hey people!

    Basically a mate is having a bbq next weekend and some of his uni mates are going to be there. One of them is this girl who supposedly is 'interested' in me.
    Problem is the last time i saw her, i didn't really say much to her and apparently she was disappointed.

    So, I have a second chance - does anyone have any advice etc as to how to deal with the situation?

    Last time I had recently been dumped and lacked confidence...now I feel more confident regarding girls!
    Talk to her in brief spurts. Make sure it's fun. Tease/flirt with her. Get her phone number. Arrange a date some other time so that you two are alone. Tap it.

    That's usually how it works.
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    (Original post by steelmole)
    Talk to her in brief spurts. Make sure it's fun. Tease/flirt with her. Get her phone number. Arrange a date some other time so that you two are alone. Tap it.

    That's usually how it works.
    Spurting in briefs might be the wrong way to go about it
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    (Original post by spatula01)
    Spurting in briefs might be the wrong way to go about it
    If definitely shows an interest though :p:
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    You're in already, which is always more than I can say when meeting potential interests. Just be yourself, don't try to act cooler than you are or anything. She already likes you which should be an easing factor to the whole situation - you shouldn't need to feel like you're impressing her.
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    (Original post by sil3nt_cha0s)
    Get your d*** out! :awesome:
    I'd draw a smily face on it first. You look more friendly, then
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    (Original post by psychocustard)
    I'd draw a smily face on it first. You look more friendly, then
    hehe :rolleyes:

    i don't get it? :stomp:
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    "we can sit here whispering sweet nothings to eachother all night, but you gotta show me what the good lord done gave you right now"
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    (Original post by sil3nt_cha0s)
    hehe :rolleyes:

    i don't get it? :stomp:
    Draw a smily face on the head of your penis. It gets all the girls.
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    (Original post by psychocustard)
    Draw a smily face on the head of your penis. It gets all the girls.
    Never heard of that one before...
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    (Original post by psychocustard)
    Draw a smily face on the head of your penis. It gets all the girls.
    this would mean you do ahve to whip it out quite early in the conversation though OP.
    Go for it
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    Lmao! Do not say should I get my ear pierced! Think I'd hurl!
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    Ask to eat her spine, I did this, now I got a gf!
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    (Original post by Katieloula)
    Lmao! Do not say should I get my ear pierced! Think I'd hurl!
    then you offer to help.

    the guy thought this through
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    Just chat! Be normal, give her a drink
 
 
 
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