I'm sixteen, and have had several boyfriends in the past. I know I am straight for a fact. A few weeks ago however, when me and my best friend (also female) were very drunk we ended up getting to third base (oral sex) and since then I haven't been in touch with her at all. I'm really upset because we've been best friends for so long and know it will be really diffcult to get things back to how they were. I don't know how to react towards her. Also, I'm starting to wonder whether I'm bi too or if it was just me experimenting. Really don't know what to do!
Any advice? xoxo
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- Thread Starter
- 27-07-2009 17:29
- 27-07-2009 17:53
Try not to put to much weight on trying to put yourself in a box with labeling yourself, it has been one experience it may just be something that happend and is not going to happen again so you cant call yourself bi because of that.
As for your friend, talk to her, she is likely to be feeling the same as you are right now so you can work through this together and try and sort out what has happened. The longer you leave it the harder it is going to get for you two to try and get things back on track in terms of your friendship.
- 27-07-2009 18:08
Sexuality isn't a triangle with 3 distinct points, it's a full line and everyone's somewhere on it in between the two extremes, so don't try to label it, as tom_tom_tom said.
And yeah, talk to her, you're going to have to address it at some point