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    you shouldnt, ignore that bull **** pressure it will ruin your life
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    Do you create a new thread about your inexperience every bloody day?
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    there is probably more people than you think in your situation
    they just wont admit it
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    u shuld get out there & start 2 learn its never too late, its more of an adventure 4 u now coz u dont know wot u will get
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    Never worry about inexperience, worry about your own confidence and set to feeling happy in yourself. That way you'll stop fearing what to do once you get with someone and start learning to feel happier about yourself. It's foolproof.
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    Im in the same, i think a person has to be rich and be brave and responsible to have a relationship
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    (Original post by Lessthanzero)
    you shouldnt, ignore that bull **** pressure it will ruin your life
    this.
    and now you realise how awkward it makes you feel maybe nows the time to begin? as someone said in another thread...you have to start somewhere
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    r u an ethnic minority by any chance?
    anyways, from experience, the more u want something the more harder ur gna get it! dats just life!
    if a chick likes u, dnt dnt need to do anythin and she will automatically comes to u!
    However, if a chick dnt like u, then chasing her is not worth it coz even if u do succeed, she will wna get another guy whilst datin u.
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    Everyone starts somewhere, just throw yourself into it. Start a conversation with someone, take it in steps get to know a person and then when you feel more confident ask them out to dinner or something. Your confidence will grow in time, but what your doing right now, is making the situation worse for yourself. Believe in yourself.
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    Just think of Susan Boyle.
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    (Original post by Smack)
    Do you create a new thread about your inexperience every bloody day?
    LMAAO X2, op damn ure weird
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    You have to start somewhere, otherwise it will be a catch 22 the longer you leave it, the worse you will feel and the harder it will become!
    Better late than never, good luck! x
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    (Original post by jludvig)
    Hi im 26 and have hardly dated let alone had sex! Im that embarrassed how old i am with the sex issue. Im just worried im goign to be laughed at by a guy or whatever and its starting to become an issue.

    Its not even hey i might meet a nice guy its what will they think
    Date a Christian?
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    (Original post by jludvig)
    thats the problem and u cant exactly throw yourself at people
    No ofcourse not, but rather than being negative and fatalistic about your situation you should accept it and make positive steps forward to gaining experience if thats what you want.

    Plus, if you do accept it positively then you will seem to be more confident, which will make you seem more attractive and may disguise your inexperience! x
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    (Original post by jludvig)
    it is a vicious circle tbh its i woud like ot meet someone nice but what if they laugh at me or tell all their mates - that sortof thing!
    then this person isnt worth it. dont listen to such people, they are immature and act like children. when you find the right person you won't have to be ashamed.
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    hold on - you dont want to date because your inexperienced but you wont get experience unless you date

    surely you realise the inane-ness of this, how else you going to break the cycle
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    (Original post by Smack)
    Do you create a new thread about your inexperience every bloody day?
    Be fair.

    It's only every other day. On the days in between there's the stuff about that poor bloke she's obsessed with.
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    (Original post by lovingmc123)
    Be fair.

    It's only every other day. On the days in between there's the stuff about that poor bloke she's obsessed with.
    :rofl:
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    I thought only Americans went on 'dates'?
 
 
 
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