i'd kind of say yes in a jokey way and see how he takes it then if he likes the idea/seems okay with it i'd eventually end up being serious![]()
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- 28-07-2009 00:36
(Original post by dancex100)
i'd kind of say yes in a jokey way and see how he takes it then if he likes the idea/seems okay with it i'd eventually end up being serious
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- 28-07-2009 00:39
So....sammy boy, who is this then eh?
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- 28-07-2009 00:47
i wouldn't be too harsh or direct if i didn't fancy them back and if i did i sure as hell would let them know some subtle way or another
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- 28-07-2009 00:54
Hell yes I would. Then if they weren't inclined in my direction at all I've play it off and tell them I didn't like them any more in the coming months.
then swallow sadness
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- 28-07-2009 00:56
Yes, straight away. But I'd follow up with I know I've got no chance with him because I don't think he likes me and I believe he is out of my league. I wouldn't say it in a depressive way though, I'd tease him with it and say I'm cool with it because he's a good friend and I'm old enough to know that you can't always get what you want in life.
His/our friends (guys) asked me once when we were Freshers and I asked why they were asking and the guy said because Jen* (one of my/our girl friends who did know I like him) had told him. She immediately got upset and denied having told him anything, which made my feeble 'no' in answer to the question seem a bit silly as she had basically, in her denial of telling my secrets, told the guys that yes, I did fancy him.
Everyone knows now anyway, because of my inability to refrain from writing my thoughts on his Facebook wall when drunk. -
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- 28-07-2009 01:03
Not unless I know they fancy me back. The other way just leads to embarrassment..
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- 28-07-2009 01:09
Is this a hypothetical, or...
"Hey, I was wondering... do you like me? You know, as more than a friend?"
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- 28-07-2009 01:32
They would only ask if they liked you back, or if they were taking the piss. So it's either/or.
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- 28-07-2009 01:45
Well, yeah I would. No point in not taking a chance eh? UNLESS it was someone I wasn't supposed to like (like someone else's boyfriend) and it would get me into trouble. In which case, I'd probably try to lie. I'm just not a very good liar.
All of this is hypothetical tho, my current bf never asked, we just kind of... ended up together :P: -
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- 28-07-2009 02:20
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I know I would, cause usually they only ask you this question if they like you back, well at least from my experience. -
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- 28-07-2009 02:28
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I got asked this by a guy a couple of years back, and I got all nervous and just said no really quickly. Oh God, what a dumb person I was since I really liked him and still kind of do
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- 28-07-2009 02:29
yeah a little
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- 28-07-2009 08:32
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So....sammy boy, who is this then eh?
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- 28-07-2009 08:34
yes least then yoo know where you stand
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- 28-07-2009 12:43
yeah I would..
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- 28-07-2009 13:23
I would!
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