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Is she playing hard to get? watch

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    This girl i really like has never had a serious relationship, if any relationship.
    I am 19 and she is 17, and we get on so well! we have been the cinema and had a great time, and she has said she woud love to do it again, as m8s, same as last tym, but she is not writing anything off!
    I text her daily, and she always takes ages, like 5 hours to text back!! and i dont know if this is because she doesnt want to, or if she is playing hard to get, but doesnt know how to play it, due to never been with a lad.

    At first, a girl taking ages to text back makes me think shes not intrested, yet she always texts back hours later, and then the other night, i went to local bar for 5 mins after work, i saw her just as she was off to get some food, and said she was coming back.

    i stayed for 5 mins, then left and on way home passed her and pipped the horn, and waved bye, i then got an abusive fone call sayin she wants to see me, we never see each other enough, and having a moan because i wasnt see-ing her.

    I dont know what to do, do i just not text her, and let her think im not intrested, which could be bad as she has never chased anyone, and never had a relationship, or do i keep showing her that i am intrested?

    First rule in relationships: Girls like communication, knowing where they stand and how the guy feels :yep:

    The whole hard to get thing never works for me, i find it more infuriating then anything. As i have said a million times on here, wish people wouldnt use it.

    Anyway as said talk to her, you obviously need to see one another soon, so ask if she wants to go out for a coffee and have a heart to hear about where you stand with one another etc.
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