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    The last five years saw me drinking heavily through university. Drinking was always my way of overcoming shyness and talking to girls. It was talking to girls, pulling them, and sleeping with them which was my ultimate goal. But the booze ended up taking over this last couple of years, since I had the money from my lecturing to spend on nice wine and hard liquor instead of college bar beer.

    My doctor told me I should aim for a goal of complete abstinence, at least for a year, since my liver is enlarged through fatty infiltration, and my numerous attempts at moderation (be they a few pints of beer, three nights a week in a pub, or one binge a week) have failed. I can't drink normally. I just go on benders, call my ex and regret things for weeks, until the next bender. So I'm sober and plan to stay that way.

    However, I definitely still want to keep it up with the ladies, and I feel sobriety may be a blessing in disguise. I can plan more rationally how I will go about getting lots of girls, and manage my time better toward this end. If I can master the art of pulling sober, I will beat all my friends, whose drinking often lets them down with the girls (through stupid comments, lack of focus, visible drunkenness).

    So I went out on Saturday to a nightclub. It was a horrible experience: people falling into me drunk, drunk people having awful conversations which were boring and made no sense, music so loud I could barely talk to the birds, feeling anxious being around rowdy Brummie ****s and hen parties.

    In other words, I though it was a futile experience, highly boring and not a very efficient way to pull birds. It also got in the way of my training, being out so late ('till 4am). When I get back to LA, I'm going to try bars, as I don't think they'll be as bad.

    But in the UK, what would you consider the best method and venue for pulling birds? Are music "gigs" a good way to meet them? At clubs I would always walk up to the girl, kiss her hand, and start grinding her, taking it from there. Does such an opportunity exist at gigs? Are gigs possible to attend without boozing?

    Other suggestions are: Supermarkets, libraries, the internet (I'm on plentyoffish.com already). Any others?
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    Supermarkets? Haha, that's a new one... How about at gyms/leisure centres?
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    The gym?
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    I'm not sure how i'd react if someone kissed my hand and started grinding me while i was choosing the best deal on cheese that week.
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    At a female tug of war competition.
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    (Original post by MO-M-G)
    I'm not sure how i'd react if someone kissed my hand and started grinding me while i was choosing the best deal on cheese that week.
    but if they spilt milk over you, would it be a different story? :awesome:
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    Try one of the numbers in your local phone box...
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    I hear for the men with cajones, libraries are a nice place, providing you don't have your romantic/sexual intentions carved on your forehead.
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    A Lesbian unity conference!! That would be satisfying
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    Well if it were me, I'd go to coffee shops, or museums and galleries because those places interest me. If you're into fitness, the gym or park would be good. Going to see bands you like will mean you meeting girls with a similar taste in music as you. House parties are good, too.
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    Are gigs a suitable venue?
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    Lidel.

    (Yes I am aware you asked for other alternatives, but Lidel is a gold mine of poon).
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    (Original post by sil3nt_cha0s)
    but if they spilt milk over you, would it be a different story? :awesome:
    No.
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    (Original post by MO-M-G)
    No.
    oh, didn't see the funny side :sad: fair enough I guess...
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    Your not particulary likely to 'Pull' a girl while sober. If you mean to try and get some numbers all the usual places, coffee shops, book shops anything really. You'll tend to meet alot nicer girls outside of clubs than in them in my experience makes a nice change.
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    Library. :yep:
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    (Original post by sil3nt_cha0s)
    oh, didn't see the funny side :sad: fair enough I guess...

    If it's any consolation ...I lol'ed :o:
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    (Original post by Cultivated)
    Library. :yep:
    :ditto:

    Great place.... unless you want to work. In which case do not go there.


    (I hate libraries in exam season, impossible to work there!)
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    (Original post by fallen angel9)
    If it's any consolation ...I lol'ed :o:
    thank you! :hugs:
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    Don't do it at the gym; that just looks sleazy.
 
 
 
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