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Girls: are you put off by a guy who's never masturbated?

I have never masturbated in my entire life. I want to know girls' opinions on if they find a guy who has never masturbated strange, they don't mind, or it attracts them to the guy more. Would you ask him why he hasn't and would you expect him to tell you before? If he were to not tell you, and then did not last long during sex, would you get a bit fishy (no pun intended)?

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Well, I would have hoped you wouldn't tell them from the first date or anything, a little too much info :lolwut:

People may think it's a bit weird, but if they like you it's one of those trivial things that don't really matter all in all. If you have sex you'll probably find yourself masturbating in the days/weeks after, apparently once you've opened the flood gates you need a release or it hurts or something? Or so I'm told.

How old are you anyway?
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co_co_vogue
Why would you ever neeed to tell them?! Unless it came up in conversation, dont randomly tell them.

And I would find it weird.
Personally, I think it's really strange. However, if I liked the person it wouldn't really matter
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Sakura-Chan
Well, I would have hoped you wouldn't tell them from the first date or anything, a little too much info :lolwut:

People may think it's a bit weird, but if they like you it's one of those trivial things that don't really matter all in all. If you have sex you'll probably find yourself masturbating in the days/weeks after, apparently once you've opened the flood gates you need a release or it hurts or something? Or so I'm told.

How old are you anyway?


I am 18 years old
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Sakura-Chan
Well, I would have hoped you wouldn't tell them from the first date or anything, a little too much info :lolwut:

People may think it's a bit weird, but if they like you it's one of those trivial things that don't really matter all in all. If you have sex you'll probably find yourself masturbating in the days/weeks after, apparently once you've opened the flood gates you need a release or it hurts or something? Or so I'm told.

How old are you anyway?


Ever wonder why 13-14 year old boys are so aggressive and are always punching each other? Finding that 'relief' calms you down hugely.
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Antonia87
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Wouldnt give a toss (see what I did there?)
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Spleeny
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I'd find it kinda odd but I wouldn't be that bothered by it.

Don't you get wet dreams though? 'Cause that'd be a real turn off, but thats thinking way in the future guess you'll do it later.
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co_co_vogue
Why would you ever neeed to tell them?! Unless it came up in conversation, dont randomly tell them.

And I would find it weird.


This.
Good put, co_co_vogue!!
:lolwut:

Masterbating + watching porn doesn't do anything for me , not sure why. I prefer to be in he action , rather than watch two other people having sex.

I don't see why not having masterbated should put a girl of you :/.
My best friend says that she wants to marry a guy who never masturbated. Good luck with that! O.o
is there a reason you've never masterbated before? it's natural and relieving, you should start unless you want to risk having a bad 1st sex experience
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Rimipie
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i don't really care, its your tool! x
Spleeny
I'd find it kinda odd but I wouldn't be that bothered by it.

Don't you get wet dreams though? 'Cause that'd be a real turn off, but thats thinking way in the future guess you'll do it later.



:yes: It happened to my friend's ex while we were both staying over at my friends house as he never masturbated. :p:
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danny d
I know it's not the question but can i ask why you've never masturbated? I don't mean that to sound in any way rude or nasty :smile: i'm just curious because obviously that's quite unusual.


I am scared of the feeling that occurs when ejaculation takes place, I think I may not like it so I have never done it before.
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emzily
it's kinda unusual but wouldn't particularly bother me. it's up to you what you do. if anything, i think i'd respect you for not following the crowd and thinking sex is your everything just like most the little, puny prepubescent boys out there do. :top:
Anonymous
I am scared of the feeling that occurs when ejaculation takes place, I think I may not like it so I have never done it before.

well then that will come in the way of your relationship with a woman (as this will also happen during sex).
JUST DO IT!:biggrin:
You are scared that it might not feel good??
Anonymous
I am scared of the feeling that occurs when ejaculation takes place, I think I may not like it so I have never done it before.

oh come on, you've never done it how can you be scared of that
out of the billions of men in the world, 0.0001% do not masterbate
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Anonymous
I am scared of the feeling that occurs when ejaculation takes place, I think I may not like it so I have never done it before.


Really? How?

If I was attracted to the guy, it'd worry me that he wouldn't find me sexy/he has no sexuality...

Do you get turned on etc?

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