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    I've been going out with my girlfriend for over 13 weeks now and trust is a real issue with me. She trusts me 100%.. and I've told her I trust her aswell, which I do some days.. It's really wierd, but I don't think I trust her, she has never done anything negative to me for me not to trust her, there are no valid reasons for my worry. Maybe trust is not the issue, it's a wierd feeling. I've been thinking about trust and I've realised that I wouldn't trust anyone 100%. My friends have said to me it's because I love/like her so much and that I don't want to loose her that my bodys preparing for me to split with her so I won't get hurt so much. Our relationship is perfect, we still feel really strongly about one-another. My only worry which she doesn't know about is this one, it happened to me about 2 weeks ago while she was away on holiday, it was awful, the worst week of my life. I was an emotional wreck..which has never happened me before. That was because I was missing her though (said family after I talked to them about it). I don't like this feeling at all, and I really really want it to go away..
    Sorry if all that read's like a big jumble..
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    Tell her how you feel, and explain to her the reasons for it, at least when you get it out in the open with her, which in a relationship is always the best thing to do, you can talk about it with one another. Just make sure that you say you are totally into the relationship but you think trust is a little issue and explain why. Obviously trust can only grow and it is an important aspect of a relationship so hope that as time goes on it gets stronger.
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    Try not to over-analyse things, like trust in your relationship. Enjoy being with your girlfriend, focus on that.
 
 
 
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