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    (Original post by francescarella)
    i like you remind me to rep you :five:
    Haha, thanks. It was a really good post. :yep:
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    It's maybe a bit unusual, but it's not really weird. Although it may seem like it, there's no set age for becoming sexually active.
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    (Original post by n0c0ntr0l)
    You must be at LSE. (LSE haters don't kill me, but common, educated guess)

    Urm, you should be more social. If your shy try and gain some confidence. And really just find a girl you like and make your advances.
    honey read up, i've already ascertained that he's at Imperial
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    (Original post by francescarella)
    are you at imperial, becuase trust me, this would allllll make sense.


    its not really weird tbh. people live their own way, so what if you haven't done all the things a chav **** would have have done at 14. as long as you are nice person with a great personality then potential girlfriends will not mind- and in any case potential girlfriends would only become actuall gfs if they didnt go "OMGZZZ lol freak!111!!". seriously don;t worry too much, just focus on you as a a person and developing your social arena, and then there's bound to be people who like you and wanna be with you
    ...:eek:

    Well done for guessing that!...:p:

    This is very good advice and I would just like to add, concentrate on your studies, fix up a career and then you can find a girlfriend when your life is settled.

    Good luck OP...
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    (Original post by francescarella)
    honey read up, i've already ascertained that he's at Imperial
    Lol, meant to say imperial. I'm a bit tired today. It's always imperial... damn sausage fest.
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    (Original post by n0c0ntr0l)
    Lol, meant to say imperial. I'm a bit tired today. It's always imperial... damn sausage fest.
    ahahahahaha so true. imperial medic girls= rare and when you do spot one they are :yucky:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Why? No idea. I'm probably not the most sociable person on earth, but I am far from being antisocial. I am quite slow at meeting new people, and admittedly, I don't have many opportunities to do so. Studying at the geekiest university in the country doesn't help (although it's good to know how many people are similar to me in that matter). Don't get me wrong - I'm not a nerd, I'm not overweight, I don't look bad or disgusting.

    It's not like I'm terribly worried about it. The only concern I have is that a potential girlfriend might have issues with that. I'm not talking about not accepting it, it's about the social skills I might be lacking due to being so late with everything. Think "40 year old virgin". It would be probably a bit weird not knowing what to do on a first date when I'm 25.
    Out of interest, which uni are you at? I don't think many people would be 'put off' by it - I certainly wouldn't. Whether it's merely a case of not actively seeking romantic interest, shyness, or not having met anyone you're really into, it isn't weird. A bit unusual, perhaps, but not weird.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Is that strange? I am a 22 year old guy and
    - I'm a virgin
    - never had a girlfriend
    - never kissed a girl
    - never seen a girl naked
    - never felt a girl's boob
    - hell, I can't even remember the last time I hugged a girl.

    And don't tell me that it will eventually happen, cuz I know that. I just want to know if it's very weird or just slightly weird
    It's weird it you want it to be weird, if you know what I mean.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Is that strange? I am a 22 year old guy and
    - I'm a virgin
    - never had a girlfriend
    - never kissed a girl
    - never seen a girl naked
    - never felt a girl's boob
    - hell, I can't even remember the last time I hugged a girl.

    And don't tell me that it will eventually happen, cuz I know that. I just want to know if it's very weird or just slightly weird

    Everyone has a different opinion when to do this and that.

    e.g

    - When to have sex
    - When to kiss
    - When to stop wetting the bed
    - When to stop crying over romantic films
    - When to stop whining
    - When to masturbate
    - When to watch porn
    - When to kiss
    - When to go to strip clubs
    - When to drink
    - When to smoke

    People say by the age of 16 YO to have sex or kissed. They most likely complain and throw insults if partners had sex before 16 (in other countries)

    You live your life, how you want to live it. Just do everything on your list before you leave this world. That is all.
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    It's not weird, but as others have said, it's not typical. But you do sound like a lovely guy, and to be honest if I was interested in a guy who hadn't done any of that before, I'd be more than flattered that he'd done it with me first, guess it would help the old ego.
    Don't stress about it and take care x
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    OP..im in da same situation n im a gal..(im 19 though)
    it sucks sometimes bt just gna hav to live with it..
    it will happen eventually..lol..u sound like a nice guy tho
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    OP..im in da same situation n im a gal..(im 19 though)
    it sucks sometimes bt just gna hav to live with it..
    it will happen eventually..lol..u sound like a nice guy tho
    lolz yea you have to just get on with it like it or not you know.
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    (Original post by francescarella)
    are you at imperial, becuase trust me, this would allllll make sense.
    :rofl:

    It's pretty freaky yes
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    (Original post by a_t)
    :rofl:

    It's pretty freaky yes
    lol i can spot an imperialite at fifty paces :bandit:
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    I know a few guys who are exactly the same as you. Dont worry, its normal.
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    I'm exactly the same, been to uni too.
    My life is quite brilliant except for the lack of the things you noted.

    My main reasons are probably lack of good looks, inability and lack of confidence to meet new girls, and total inability to even try to get things started when I find someone I like and am reasonably confident they feel the same.

    My only worry really is that potential girlfriends would find this weird, and also that I would be inexperienced in relationships and mess up with someone I really like - I'd rather have done that when I was 15 with someone who didn't really matter, but then again I couldn't go for and use someone I don't like.
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    when I was looking round my flat for the first time, Imperial guys were living there. They couldn't be bothered to change their bed sheets so they slept in sleeping bags on top of their beds. They weren't getting any. For Imperial you're normal but not in terms of the rest of the world.
 
 
 
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