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    Anon or delete please.

    Not sure if it's advice or just somewhere to get talk about this but feel free to comment either way.

    I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. Like most couples, we've had our fair share of arguements and "break ups" but everythings always works out usually.
    Tonight, I went to his house and was in a bad mood just through being tired. He was trying to wind me up and then he unhooked my bra and left it open. This sounds so trivial but it annoys me so much. Anyways, I told him to do it up again and he wouldn't which meant i had to take it off and fix it myself.
    I was annoyed and sort of slapped his backside because he was lying with his back to me. I must have did it a bit hard though and he turned around and punched me in the arm. I lashed out and slapped him on the arm and he twisted my wrist and this sort of went on for a while, me getting angrier. He ended up saying to get out. After a bit more of me going at him in a rage and him pushing me, I left. I tried to phone him and his phone was off. An hour later I phoned and it rang. I expected him to just be in a mood but he answered and told me never to phone him again and that we were finished. I've been phonin him all night to try and talk but he just doesn't want to know and says he's changing his number.
    I'm absolutely heartbroken. I've been crying since I got home and the fact that he won't even consider forgiving me is killing me. I feel like physically being sick and I don't know what to do now.
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    I'm not sure he is such a good boyfriends if he is twisting your arm around.
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    OP.. pm me.
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    Well you did sort of start it so you have no-one to blame but yourself. Yh he was being annoying but if you hit a guy hard then they WILL hit you 9 times out of 10 (randomly made up stat). You can't expect a guy to think 'okay a girl has hit me that's fine', he wouldn't want to seem weak and you kept taking it further and further and so he did the same thing. I think it's best for you to end it, if he wants you then he'll phone in the next few days, just don't rebound.
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    You'll probs be back together in a week. Give him time to calm down and apologise to him, accept his apology (which should come) and talk to him about how you prefer to be treated when you're not in the mood for games.

    Good luck with it all. Don't be sick, just think about what you need to say and cry if it makes you feel better. :yy:
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    I've cried so much my eyes are stinging.

    The last time I talked to him he said that the reason he his splitting is not just because of the whole hittng each other thing but because he is "sick of coming back from work to a moaning faced b****". But am I not allowed to be in a bad mood sometimes? God knows he is.
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    Yh I hate when people are in bad moods all the time for no reason, it takes the biscuit. Why would you go over if you were in a bad mood? It's obvious that you weren't in the best mood to be socialising with your boyfriend.

    In future if you're in a bad or agitated mood due to fatigue then call up your boyfriend and explain it (unless you live together)
 
 
 
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