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advice needed - seeing a girl this friday... watch

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    basically she was someone i used to get on really really well with. the way i felt for her, i've never that way towards anyone else. to cut the long story short, our excellent friendship (which could have, and probably would have, gone onto something bigger) ****ed up a year and a half ago and we drifted away from each other.

    over the last few days we've started a little convo via facebook, and we seem to be getting on well. and she's doing a piano recital thingy this friday evening, to which she's invited loads of people, including me.

    now if i'm honest, i still think about her every now and then, thinking about the "if only" scenario between us. and truth be told, i think i still have some feelings for her. do you guys reckon i should tell her? (coz i'd probably kick myself if i didn't, and i don't wanna spend ages and ages wondering what might have happened).

    so yeah, what do you guys reckon i should do?

    (please keep anon as i know one of her gd friends comes on this site quite a lot)

    Just go up to her and tell her how you feel, regardless of what happens, the sun will always come up the next morning.

    Tell her...you have nothing to lose because either way at least you'll know how she feels whether its the answer you wanted or not at least you'll know..

    I think it maybe better for you to talk to her a little more and get to know her again, as if you are to just jump in saying you still have feelings it may be a little to much for her.

    Maybe suggest you meet up somewhere casual to start off with just the two of you and see how it goes.
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