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    one night in a nightclub i went up to a random girl on the dancefloor and started dancing with her. she was really grinding on me and as i was i started touching her chest and eventually under her skirt if you know what i mean. she let me do it for a while and then moved my hand away and she kept dancing until i left to get my friends a minute or so later. since then i cant get it out of my head because i didnt know the girl and dont know if i upset her and also i dont want people to think i am a sex beast because that was totally out of character. some of my friends seen me and just say i creeped up behind her and started touching her but i am pretty certain i didnt because i am sure the girl was rubbing herself on me. do you think this was really bad and would you say it was sexual assault.i really hate myself for going that far i dont know what came over me and now i just feel like a creep and i ffel like ive really let my family down and just want it not to have happened and killing myself would do that for me

    i feel like this guy
    http://www.sundaymail.co.uk/news/sco...8057-20633126/

    please read that story

    would you say i am like that guy and should i be a registered sex offender.

    im 18 in the uk
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    Get over it. Things like this happen all the time in clubs. If things really did happen in your version of events then you have nothing to worry about.
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    its been on my mind nearly 24/7 since it happened and im pretty certain thats what happened one thing i am certainf of is i never forced anything but still feel terrible and want to know what other uk teenagers that go to nightclubs think
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    that happened to me in a club before. to be honest if she let you do it for a while, she probably enjoyed it and then realised where she was and that people could see and got embarassed. i doubt she thinks you're a creep...bit far though, as you're aware. its nothing to worry about i dont think.
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    Someone call the police! :rolleyes:

    But seriously if she let you do it for a while then she obviously had no problem with it. :yep:
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    You obviously feel ashamed about what you did, which most certainly means you want do it again. Shame is a poweful influenece. Wouldnt worry about it your not a sex beast, everyone makes a mistake when they are young.
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    At least you feel ashamed of it! It was probably a bit far to go, in a club, to be honest. But the girl clearly didn't have a problem with it if she let you do it, as people have said. Let's be honest, there could be loads of reasons for her walking away - she doesn't necessarily think you're a sex beast. Cheer up
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    its been on my mind nearly 24/7 since it happened and im pretty certain thats what happened one thing i am certainf of is i never forced anything but still feel terrible and want to know what other uk teenagers that go to nightclubs think
    Dont feel bad at all. I was in the same situation as you in Newquay. I was touching up this girl and making out with her, then I realised my amtes had gone off, so I just pulled away and left her. No bad feelings at all. It's a club. Get in, get out, go go go!!
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    Troll.This thread has been done atleast twice before
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    not a troll i have posted it before but i feel that bad about it im just trying to get some more opinions
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    WAITER! This copy pasta is stale.
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    Yeah, i've seen this thread before. If you're actually serious just get over it ffs.
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    get over it !
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    this is a serious question i know ive asked it before but it still annoys me and im just trying to get other peoples opinions
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    It's really bad what you did anon, you should have said sorry to her after. Im afraid I class you as a perv now.
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    Am I the only one who thinks the women in that link shouldn't have been successful in their court case?
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    You've done this one already - bored.
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    anybody else got any opinions
 
 
 
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