I used to go out with this guy for two years when I was 16 til I went away for university and we agreed to go our separate ways because of the long distance. I moved back home last september and at christmas time there we got back together (bear in mind this was two years after we first broke up). Things were going ok but we split up a month ago because he didnt want a relationship right away! The thing is we are still very good friends and probably always will be!
I now have a new guy who I am interested in and is keen on me too...I dont know if I should go out with him or if Im not being fair to him if I do because I know I still have feelings for my ex.
I dont know if this is how you get over someone or not and really dont want to hurt this guy as he is very nice!!
I have it in my head though that me and my ex will get back together (he has a lot going on in his life at the min, family members being sick and wat not!)
I just dont know what to do and dont want to mess anyone about!
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- Thread Starter
- 30-07-2009 19:22
- 30-07-2009 19:28
Personally i think it is better for you to be in a better palce before you think about having a new relationship, as you are going to be not in the best state of mind with the new guy and there is potential to hurt him (not saying you would) I would take some more time, there is all the time in the world to move on, there is also no rush, he was a large part of your life he cant be jsut forgotten about.
Just take some time to yourself and concentrate on moving on, this may envolve the guy that you have met, but make sure you are in the right place mentally to consider a new relationship.
- 30-07-2009 19:38
i wouldnt go back with the ex.
- Thread Starter
- 30-07-2009 19:54
yeh I know I was thinking that, it wouldnt be very fair but some people are telling me that to get over him is to move on...