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when do you think its right to bring sex into the relationship? watch

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    I have asked a girl I met on a date and we are goin out this weekend, we have been on each others facebooks aswell and we seem to have a real heat for eachother. I dont know how long you should wait to approach the sex question, any experiences?
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    After 4 days and shinty-six minutes. There's a sex question? Just see what happens, you don't have to 'bring sex in'. In fact, I'd say that asking a sex question is a pretty sure fire way of getting no sex.
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    Depends. Sometimes first date, other times longer. You just know.
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    When you're both good n ready.
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    I agree I don't think it's a question it just progresses to that stage.
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    before the relationship
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    Yea, don't ask about it. Just let it happen when it's right - that's the most exciting and fun way.
    So I hear.
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    I prefer, "time period before bringing a relationship into sex". Much easier.
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    it's not a matter of time... i think its just when it feels right.
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    When you're both comfortable and ready..there's no set time limit..it's different for everyone.

    Just make progress at a rate you both can handle and the magic will happen...
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    If you want to have sex, then make a move at it, i'm sure you know your bases, kissing would be the best way to start it off, and then use your hands. But if you really like this girl, i'd advise laying off sex until you have a relationship and you know that she'd be ready to have sex. It's all about choosing the right time and when it feels right to make the move and take the risk.
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    Depends when she wants it usually. Some girls do put out on the first date. You should probably get to know her before expecting anything to happen though.
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    (Original post by Melana)
    After 4 days and shinty-six minutes. There's a sex question? Just see what happens, you don't have to 'bring sex in'. In fact, I'd say that asking a sex question is a pretty sure fire way of getting no sex.
    What she said.
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    (Original post by Melana)
    After 4 days and shinty-six minutes. There's a sex question? Just see what happens, you don't have to 'bring sex in'. In fact, I'd say that asking a sex question is a pretty sure fire way of getting no sex.
    what she said

    PLUS, i believe, that in any relationship, sex is only going to happen when SHE is ready - regardless of the dude

    and...oh yeah..have a nice date
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    My boyfriend and I didn't like have sex until 8/9 months in the realtionship, he was the one who brought it up too. I'm too shy.:p:
 
 
 
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