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    Anon or delete please.

    I'm 18, starting university this year but I have never had a gf, not once in my entire life. I went to an all boys school for years 7-13 and thus I never got one because I did not socialise with girls much. But I am not sure if I am girlfriend material because I have not had any experience in that department in all my years.

    Is it normal for me and will things change in the future, bearing in mind I never tried for a girlfriend much before?
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    Get over it. Totally normal.
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    Your 18 its perfectly normal. Theres tons of dudes who are in the same position. Chillout and go with the flow.
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    Yes it's very, very normal, and also extremely common.

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    totally normal...really nothing to worry or be scared about. things will change in the future, it will naturally happen
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    Yes it is.
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    Very abnormal tbh op
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    Normal chill the **** out
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    The less you think about it, the more likely it is to happen for you =)
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Anon or delete please.

    I'm 18, starting university this year but I have never had a gf, not once in my entire life. I went to an all boys school for years 7-13 and thus I never got one because I did not socialise with girls much. But I am not sure if I am girlfriend material because I have not had any experience in that department in all my years.

    Is it normal for me and will things change in the future, bearing in mind I never tried for a girlfriend much before?
    You're definately not girlfriend material if you went to n all boys school :O
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Anon or delete please.

    I'm 18, starting university this year but I have never had a gf, not once in my entire life. I went to an all boys school for years 7-13 and thus I never got one because I did not socialise with girls much. But I am not sure if I am girlfriend material because I have not had any experience in that department in all my years.

    Is it normal for me and will things change in the future, bearing in mind I never tried for a girlfriend much before?
    yh nothing wrong with that.
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    Dont worry about it the right person will come you might just have to wait for them. I am 17 and never been kissed but it doesnt bother me there are more important things in the world than worrying about it.
    i looked at ur profile pic. i would kiss u! lol
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    hahahahahahahahaha
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    perfectly normalllllll
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    Yep. And there and tonnes of people in the same position as you. Can you not tell since this thread is made quite often? It'll happen
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    it is normal, just need confidance thats all

    dont think about it too much other wise you will have "desperate" tattooed on your forehead when you go out
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    My boyfriend was 18 when we got together and I was his first real girlfriend. I respected him for this, that he didn't just get with anyone etc. cos he could have...good looking, nice personality..10 months on and he definiatley is boyfriend material so I wouldn't worry if you have no previous experience with girls, as long as you treat her right, and dont get walked over yourself, you'll be fine
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    Of course it's normal. If you naturally didn't ever feel the need to hook up with a girl, that means it's normal. Other people's standards need not apply to you. Having a girfiend is something 100% personal. The times when people had to show up to balls with an "escort" or partner if they wanted to be respected are long gone.
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    Your ugly and nobody likes you...GET OVER IT!
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    Well, I am seventeen, and I know about 10 guys who have NEVER had a girlfriend. These guys are generally looked down upon as unsociable, and boring.
    Contrary to people saying, "it's perfectly normal", I would say that it is not.
    I wouldn't worry though, you'll get your chance to shine, that is if you want to.
 
 
 
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