Okay so I've got a crush on this guy (first crush - I'm 17 and have been out with someone before but not had a proper crush, is that weird?) and I really want to get to know him properly be like a friend. I don't even know him that well I've just gotten to like him because he's very intelligent, strongly-opinionated and generally nice and polite but I have no idea if he's, say, just being okay with me but secretly doesn't like me at all but is too nice to say.
Do you think I should start trying to talk to him more and being nicer? And how would I go about that without having to force conversation on him?