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    (Original post by MR.PINK)
    :hmmm2: i dont understand whats with girls and having kids :dontknow:
    Meh, passes the time :p:

    And yeah, I don't really believe we have soulmates, but basically if you found someone you'd want to spend the rest of your life with, same thing tbh!
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    (Original post by MR.PINK)
    lol i wdnt dare argue with u that alot and most of relationships end
    yet not all [if they do end] ends badly,

    personally i have managed to stay close mates with most of my ex's

    yet u should wish for the best, and prepair for the worest
    no need to be so pessimist. XD
    I knowww, I don't go around like some relationship scrooge haha I'm just very realistic and defensive :p:
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    (Original post by 99 Red Balloons)
    Meh, passes the time :p:

    And yeah, I don't really believe we have soulmates, but basically if you found someone you'd want to spend the rest of your life with, same thing tbh!
    hmm, i guess ur right
    9 months + 18/17 years does pass time
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    (Original post by x-lolarose-x)
    I knowww, I don't go around like some relationship scrooge haha I'm just very realistic and defensive :p:
    You are pretty honest about that

    but u cant go through life without gettin hurt

    thats life for you :cool:
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    (Original post by MR.PINK)
    :hmmm2: i dont understand whats with girls and having kids :dontknow:
    Stretch marks
    Saggy boobs/skin
    Screaming babies
    Loss of sleep
    A very limited social life
    Years of tantrums and forcing them to eat vegetables and making sure they don't get pregnant

    it's a beautiful thing, it really is
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    (Original post by MR.PINK)
    but u cant go through life without gettin hurt
    you can be prepared though, which makes it all easier.
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    (Original post by death.drop)
    you can be prepared though, which makes it all easier.
    exactly!
    I know much of life and it's pains, trust me on that one haha
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    (Original post by x-lolarose-x)
    Stretch marks
    Saggy boobs/skin
    Screaming babies
    Loss of sleep
    A very limited social life
    Years of tantrums and forcing them to eat vegetables and making sure they don't get pregnant

    it's a beautiful thing, it really is
    Yea, i guess with all that amount of fun, no one could resist, pfft girls [no offence :p: ]
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    he wouldn't be my soulmate if he didn't want kids :dontknow:
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    (Original post by death.drop)
    you can be prepared though, which makes it all easier.
    yea but, where is the fun in that?
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    I don't really want kids... so I'd stay with my boyfriend. Besides, we both might change our minds.
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    Leave because it's selfish to not want to have kids and just focus on your own love.
    Defo leave with my head held high!
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    I find it hard to concieve being in "true love" with someone with whom I'd disagree on such a relevant issue like having children.
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    there's no such thing as a soulmate..and kids are gonna leave you after 18 years whereas your partner won't..
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    (Original post by *TheSweetestDrug*)
    there's no such thing as a soulmate..and kids are gonna leave you after 18 years whereas your partner won't..
    Debateable? :p: I'd take the view that kids will always love you whereas there's more chance your husband will fall for someone else and leave you.
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    (Original post by 99 Red Balloons)
    Debateable? :p: I'd take the view that kids will always love you whereas there's more chance your husband will fall for someone else and leave you.
    true..i guess we're better off without either..!
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    (Original post by Aula)
    he wouldn't be my soulmate if he didn't want kids :dontknow:
    Exactly!
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    (Original post by Psycho0101)
    There is no such thing as a "soulmate" and "real love" doesn't exist.

    /thread
    So what you and I have isn't real love? :sad:


    I would stay with him and find ways to change his mind. Perhaps accidentally insert some of his sperm in me and look forward to the results :teeth:
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    I would deffo leave him.. i lovee kids, i want to have atleast 5 in the future
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    stay with him. i'm not bothered about having kids anyway.
 
 
 
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