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    (Original post by rockrunride)
    If a man wants a virgin wife, he should at least have the decency to remain a virgin himself.
    Good good. Hypocrisy is outrageous. The guy is a manwhore but expects a virgin mary to marry him. I wonder what fabulous qualities he must have to have expectations.
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    OP, why do you believe it's ok for men to sleep round but not women? Even if you didn't see men and women as equal (obviously not) then would that not suggest that men are weaker as they had to get it and couldn't 'deny themselves a pleasure'?
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    The prospect of someone appealing to me specifically because they're a 'virgin' seems quite vile.

    Besides, how would you even go about establishing their virginity? That's the sort of question you could really only ask someone after you've been going out with them for a fair amount of time, and then are you really telling me you'd split up with them at that stage, where you're already close, merely because they've had sex a few times.
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    good luck trying to find one
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    (Original post by .X.alysha.X.)
    I think its OK if a man wants to marry a virgin, even if he has slept around..its just a preference that he would want to marry a virgin, as long as the women doesn't mind that he is not a virgin and she is.

    However, I think it would be silly to disregard marrying a women who isn't a virgin if you love her though.

    What I would like to know is...OP, what would you think of a women who was not a virgin yet insisted that her husband was?

    EDIT: Also, do you want to marry a virgin, because you are insecure about your sexual performance, and you don't want your virgin wife to know what she is missing out on?
    I want a wife who is a virgin for my children. I do not want a slut mother for my children.

    These days in post-feminist britian women consider it insulting to cook, clean or be mothers, yet they all want women who can cook, who will clean and do lots of childcare. So i would not be suprised for a woman to want to sleep around and then want a virgin husband.
    Although i cosnider it a lot more femenine for a woman to be a virgin and more masculine for a man to have sexual experience.

    My sexual performance is fine, had no complaints However i find it odd how you try and villanise men who have a poor sexual perfomance. I guess you're apart of the Lily Allen generation.
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    So you're basically implying that a woman who has had sex before marriage is a ****.

    Righty-O.
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    (Original post by .X.alysha.X.)

    EDIT: Also, do you want to marry a virgin, because you are insecure about your sexual performance, and you don't want your virgin wife to know what she is missing out on?
    This was exactly what I was going to say! :yes:
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    (Original post by i-Citizen)
    So your loose now? :p:

    OP are you a muslim by any chance?

    I think its fair that you want a virgin wife, if you yourself are a virgin too, otherwise it seems a bit unfair no...?
    No, i am an athiest.
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    (Original post by rockrunride)
    If a man wants a virgin wife, he should at least have the decency to remain a virgin himself.
    Couldn't have said it better myself!

    Why are only women called sluts when men are not insulted by equally degrading comments for sleeping around to the same extent! inequality!!

    prefering virgin wives it would make dates suitably awkward:
    "so... are you a virgin?"
    "erm bit of an full on question for a first date don't you think? no"
    *boy gets up a leaves*
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    (Original post by rockrunride)
    If a man wants a virgin wife, he should at least have the decency to remain a virgin himself.
    And the thread winner is... rockrunride :yes:
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    (Original post by moreiniho)
    The prospect of someone appealing to me specifically because they're a 'virgin' seems quite vile.

    Besides, how would you even go about establishing their virginity? That's the sort of question you could really only ask someone after you've been going out with them for a fair amount of time, and then are you really telling me you'd split up with them at that stage, where you're already close, merely because they've had sex a few times.
    I consider the diea of the mother of my children being banged in the toilets of a nightclub quite vile

    I think if you want a virgin wife you will have to look outside of British shores. Lets face it English women are not known for their virtue.
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    (Original post by Ashr)
    Couldn't have said it better myself!

    Why are only women called sluts when men are not insulted by equally degrading comments for sleeping around to the same extent! inequality!!

    prefering virgin wives it would make dates suitably awkward:
    "so... are you a virgin?"
    "erm bit of an full on question for a first date don't you think? no"
    *boy gets up a leaves*

    I think its more femenine for a woman to be a virgin and men should have some sexual experience. Thats just how it is. This notion of everyone being equal is crap. Men should be masculine and women should be femenine.

    It wont be as awkward as being around the men who have ****** your wife before you.
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    (Original post by SHABANA)
    If a man isn't a virgin himself and still wants a virgin wife there is something wrong with that. If a woman hasn't slept with anybody, maybe she wants a man who hasn't been sticking it in other women.
    Also, there is a difference between being a slut and not being a virgin.
    ah, thank you! You summed up my own opinions perfectly!
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    (Original post by TheJudge)
    I want a wife who is a virgin for my children. I do not want a slut mother for my children.
    What's the difference between a slut mother and a slut father? You mentioned a proper family life before, is a father not an equal part of this? Or at least a big part of it?
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    (Original post by TheJudge)
    I want a wife who is a virgin for my children. I do not want a slut mother for my children.

    These days in post-feminist britian women consider it insulting to cook, clean or be mothers, yet they all want women who can cook, who will clean and do lots of childcare. So i would not be suprised for a woman to want to sleep around and then want a virgin husband.
    Although i cosnider it a lot more femenine for a woman to be a virgin and more masculine for a man to have sexual experience.

    My sexual performance is fine, had no complaints However i find it odd how you try and villanise men who have a poor sexual perfomance. I guess you're apart of the Lily Allen generation.
    Don't be a drama queen, I never villanised men with a poor sexual performance, I was just asking if that was what you were insecure about which leads you to have this bad attitude. I don't disagree with the point that you want to marry a virgin, although you are not one yourself, I just don't like the way you make out that if a women is not a virgin before she is married, she is a slut.
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    Why should it be different for men and women? And do you class yourself as a slut for sleeping around? If not why? Also what is wrong with being a slut assuming you only practice safe sex?
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    (Original post by TheJudge)
    I think if you want a virgin wife you will have to look outside of British shores. Lets face it English women are not known for their virtue.
    Feel free dear, I don't think anyone here would want to marry you anyway.
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    I'm guessing because they think guys percieve non-virgins as ****s.
    Personally, I don't want to marry a virgin, quite the opposite actually - I prefer to be married to like a pornstar, a stripper, an escort and the like. Why? Because they are freakin' bombshells in bed :yep:

    I know this from first hand experience :borat:
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    (Original post by TheJudge)
    I think its more femenine for a woman to be a virgin and men should have some sexual experience. Thats just how it is. This notion of everyone being equal is crap. Men should be masculine and women should be femenine.

    It wont be as awkward as being around the men who have ****** your wife before you.
    What if there was a 1:1 ratio of men:women in the world. What would happen to the ones who'd had sex and not being married. There'd be a big shortage of women who fit men's marriage material criteria and it wouldn't work.
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    (Original post by PygmyShrew)
    Feel free dear, I don't think anyone here would want to marry you anyway.
    What do you know about me. Lots of girls like me.
 
 
 
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