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    gosh no jesusssssss
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    (Original post by weet_ABI_x)
    About two hours ago someone asked me on a date, I said yes.

    About ten minutes ago someone else asked me on a date. I haven't replied yet.

    I want to go to the second one, but is it ok? Is it morally acceptable? And if it is, do I have to tell either/both that I'm seeing someone else as well?

    Thanks...


    Edit: to clarify they are both first dates and I'm not really good friends with either of them to start with, and I wouldn't really say I'd prefer one over the other

    PM me if u need real life tested stratigies, i been going out with up to 3 people at the same time, and been doing that for about 5 years now, never got caught, not even once :yes:
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    (Original post by weet_ABI_x)

    Edit: to clarify they are both first dates and I'm not really good friends with either of them to start with, and I wouldn't really say I'd prefer one over the other
    Yeah, you're just getting to know them and it sounds pretty casual so go on both, nothing wrong with it
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    (Original post by MR.PINK)
    PM me if u need real life tested stratigies, i been going out with up to 3 people at the same time, and been doing that for about 5 years now, never got caught, not even once :yes:
    Bloody hell!
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    (Original post by Chrrye)
    White maltesers are much better, its true! No contest!
    Hehe , white maltesers are just the best , they're so tasty a ymmy , I just has some with a can of coke , that's a wild combination , but I usually poor the maltesers into a glass of milk , that's nice
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    (Original post by tropical-twist3)
    Bloody hell!
    it's a gift, i'm not proud of
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    (Original post by MR.PINK)
    it's a gift, i'm not proud of
    So if you're not proud of it...why do you do it? Do you ever feel guilty? do you have ones you prefer?
    It's not really something I'd even dream of doing so I'm intrigued.
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    go for it..
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    Technically, there is a morally correct way around it. If you tell both guys/girls that youll be seeing them aswell as someone else and their fine with it then you get away with it. If they're not happy with it then you'll need to choose.
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    yes you can go on both

    your single and they only first date so go for it
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    (Original post by tropical-twist3)
    So if you're not proud of it...why do you do it? Do you ever feel guilty? do you have ones you prefer?
    It's not really something I'd even dream of doing so I'm intrigued.
    ill be honest with u
    i do it cuz it gives me a kick, nothin else can match it
    as well if am only going out with one girl, and we break up, i feel pain

    no i dont feel guilty, i'm always there when gf needs me, i satisfy all her needs
    noo i never prefered one on th other, but i go on 1st ask 1st hang out with basic.

    plus i have reached a point where i cant go back now, i wd love to go back in time though
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    yes and no. it wud depend on the situation. if your not decided then its ok. if your not .......
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    I don't see what's wrong with dating both so long as you don't sustain it for a long period. You'll have to make your mind up pretty quickly so people don't get hurt in the long run.
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    Just don't double book yourself.
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    (Original post by MR.PINK)
    ill be honest with u
    i do it cuz it gives me a kick, nothin else can match it
    as well if am only going out with one girl, and we break up, i feel pain

    no i dont feel guilty, i'm always there when gf needs me, i satisfy all her needs
    noo i never prefered one on th other, but i go on 1st ask 1st hang out with basic.

    plus i have reached a point where i cant go back now, i wd love to go back in time though
    You can go back. It's called breaking up. You're not exactly engaged to them all.... are you?
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    (Original post by Davezk)
    You can go back. It's called breaking up. You're not exactly engaged to them all.... are you?
    noo noo i meant go back in time, to where i was only going out with one girl at a time
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    Look it isn't your fault who you're attracted to, and as long as you're 25 years of age and single, then it is ok.

    :rofl:
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    (Original post by MR.PINK)
    noo noo i meant go back in time, to where i was only going out with one girl at a time
    Oh so you mean like... now you've got a taste of seeing more than 1 you might always have it. Whereas at the point, you didn't know the thrill?
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    (Original post by MR.PINK)
    noo noo i meant go back in time, to where i was only going out with one girl at a time
    lmao, you don't need to go back in time.
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    (Original post by weet_ABI_x)
    About two hours ago someone asked me on a date, I said yes.

    About ten minutes ago someone else asked me on a date. I haven't replied yet.

    I want to go to the second one, but is it ok? Is it morally acceptable? And if it is, do I have to tell either/both that I'm seeing someone else as well?

    Thanks...


    Edit: to clarify they are both first dates and I'm not really good friends with either of them to start with, and I wouldn't really say I'd prefer one over the other
    You're a skank to even consider it.
 
 
 
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