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Is it ok to be "seeing" 2 people at the same time?

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weet_ABI_x

About two hours ago someone asked me on a date, I said yes.

About ten minutes ago someone else asked me on a date. I haven't replied yet.

I want to go to the second one, but is it ok? Is it morally acceptable? And if it is, do I have to tell either/both that I'm seeing someone else as well?

Thanks...

Edit: to clarify they are both first dates and I'm not really good friends with either of them to start with, and I wouldn't really say I'd prefer one over the other

PM me if u need real life tested stratigies, i been going out with up to 3 people at the same time, and been doing that for about 5 years now, never got caught, not even once :yes:

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tropical-twist3

weet_ABI_x

Edit: to clarify they are both first dates and I'm not really good friends with either of them to start with, and I wouldn't really say I'd prefer one over the other

Yeah, you're just getting to know them and it sounds pretty casual so go on both, nothing wrong with it

Reply 62

tropical-twist3

MR.PINK

PM me if u need real life tested stratigies, i been going out with up to 3 people at the same time, and been doing that for about 5 years now, never got caught, not even once :yes:

Bloody hell!

Reply 63

Maximum Velocity

Chrrye

White maltesers are much better, its true! No contest! :wink:

Hehe , white maltesers are just the best , they're so tasty a ymmy , I just has some with a can of coke , that's a wild combination , but I usually poor the maltesers into a glass of milk , that's nice :wink:

Reply 64

MR.PINK

tropical-twist3

Bloody hell!

it's a gift, i'm not proud of

Reply 65

tropical-twist3

MR.PINK

it's a gift, i'm not proud of

So if you're not proud of it...why do you do it? Do you ever feel guilty? do you have ones you prefer?
It's not really something I'd even dream of doing so I'm intrigued.

go for it..

Technically, there is a morally correct way around it. If you tell both guys/girls that youll be seeing them aswell as someone else and their fine with it then you get away with it. If they're not happy with it then you'll need to choose.

Reply 68

silverbolt

yes you can go on both

your single and they only first date so go for it

Reply 69

MR.PINK

tropical-twist3

So if you're not proud of it...why do you do it? Do you ever feel guilty? do you have ones you prefer?
It's not really something I'd even dream of doing so I'm intrigued.

ill be honest with u
i do it cuz it gives me a kick, nothin else can match it
as well if am only going out with one girl, and we break up, i feel pain

no i dont feel guilty, i'm always there when gf needs me, i satisfy all her needs
noo i never prefered one on th other, but i go on 1st ask 1st hang out with basic.

plus i have reached a point where i cant go back now, i wd love to go back in time though

Reply 70

jerzydee

yes and no. it wud depend on the situation. if your not decided then its ok. if your not .......

Reply 71

Davezk

I don't see what's wrong with dating both so long as you don't sustain it for a long period. You'll have to make your mind up pretty quickly so people don't get hurt in the long run.

Reply 72

laughingwithpicasso

Just don't double book yourself.

Reply 73

Davezk

MR.PINK

You can go back. It's called breaking up. You're not exactly engaged to them all.... are you?

Reply 74

MR.PINK

Davezk

You can go back. It's called breaking up. You're not exactly engaged to them all.... are you?

noo noo i meant go back in time, to where i was only going out with one girl at a time

Reply 75

Bateman

Look it isn't your fault who you're attracted to, and as long as you're 25 years of age and single, then it is ok.

:rofl:

Reply 76

Davezk

MR.PINK

noo noo i meant go back in time, to where i was only going out with one girl at a time

Oh so you mean like... now you've got a taste of seeing more than 1 you might always have it. Whereas at the point, you didn't know the thrill?

Reply 77

Bateman

MR.PINK

noo noo i meant go back in time, to where i was only going out with one girl at a time

lmao, you don't need to go back in time.

Reply 78

Blátönn

weet_ABI_x

You're a skank to even consider it.

Reply 79

the_woozle

i say go for the first date with them both and try and decide which of them if any you want to date / go out with etc. if it was me id go on one date with them both but try and decide asap otherwise id feel bad, and i wouldnt sleep with either of them til id made my decision :smile: