History repeating itself - rejection yet again

Feeling a bit low today after a crap night last night.

Around Christmas i became good friends with this guy, rob. It soon turned into fliriting, i was told by his friends that he liked me. Next party we went to together we pulled & acted v couply. Next day he didnt want to know i existed and no longer wanted to be friends.

Then last few weeks i became friends with another guy, phil, lots of flirting & was told yet again by friends & even saw a txt saying he liked me. he came to my leavers ball as effectively my date, once again pulled & acted v couply. then he totally blanked me & a week later (last night) was round a friend's house when he was overtly flirting with one of my friends & ignoring me.

I'm fed up with history repeating itself. sure i pull random guys at parties but it seems the guys i really like & develop a friendship with before hand always end up hurting me. both guys were considered by my year at school to be good 'catches' and both made it clear they fancied me before pretending i didnt exist. right now getting a bf sometimes seems an uphill task, my longest relationship has only been four months a while ago but now i'm too scared that i'll just get crushed again.

does anyone vaguely know what i keep doing wrong?

Perhaps it's nothing you are doing wrong, you just happened to have stumbled upon some players. They use you for parties etc and then want nothing more after that. Maybe get to know a guy not in a party kind of scenario, as it will be a much more firm base for a proper relationship

but thats the thing, these guys i didnt meet in party scenarios, but met at various gatherings before coming to friends. then after knowing them well going to the same party & pulling. when i pull a random guy at a party i really dont expect anything from it bcos its a party & there's alcohol inolved

Hmm i really have no idea what's going wrong apart from it could just be coincidence the same thing happened twice. Maybe not using a party as the first time you kiss and stuff? Getting to know someone, and be kind of formally 'going out' first?

what do you mean by very couply

also what do you mean by blanked you?

Is it possible that you come across as needy or too strongly?