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    Anon as its just a little bit embaressing.

    Erm right, i lost my virginity a few weeks ago with a very close mate (we did it once) and last night and this morning i tried sleeping with a guy i have liked for ages, but it still really hurt, it hurt just the same if not more as when i lost it, even though we tried missionary (last night) and me on top (this morning).

    Also, when i have sex the only sensation i get is the need to pee or sometimes break wind...i really dont think thats normal! is it? am i like weird???

    I really need some answers cos im all confused x
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    ok thanx for trying to help. x
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    come on...does no one know if this is normal? or am i strange?
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    ah feck it! seems no one can help! or no one can be bothered more like...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    ah feck it! seems no one can help! or no one can be bothered more like...
    Nobody can really give you advice because everyone is different, we all experience sex in different ways so noone can tell you what sex should or shouldn't feel like (unless obviously it is painful)
    If it's bugging you that much, go to a family planning clinic and ask a GP.
    For the pain, maybe you aren't turned on or "wet" enough down there, like someone has already suggested use lube and try to relax your muscles...
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    if the pain is bearable, then probably try a few more times. most girls find the first few times rather uncomfortable. that's normal.
    it's important you are very relaxed, have enough foreplay and probably use lube.
    if it's very painful, and you're really worried, then go see a doctor.
 
 
 
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