Meaningless relationships Watch
I've not had a real relationship, except one which lasted less than a month since way back in the last year of school. It's not as if I have trouble meeting women, but nothing goes further than meaningless one night stands and little more. There has been times when it seemed things might work out, but the circumstances have been against it(I've been travelling alot over the last couple of years, trying to make a relationship work when you meet overseas and live on different continents is just impossible).
Alot of my mates have found girlfriends/boyfriends. Some seem happy, but in other cases it seems like they are together for the sake of it and get treated/treat their partners like crap. But I'm just finding that waking up next to someone you hardly know and not remembering their names particularly depressing.
We're too young to worry about it, when you're 50 and married (or not) you'll look back and long for days like these.
If you are home now from travelling you may have more luck in making things last.
For the record, I'm usually away 4-5 months a year - so it's not as if I don't have the opportunity to have a relationship, it just so happens I've met the most interesting women when I've been abroad. But like I said, everyone has different plans and it makes things difficult. Also, it's not always the case of waking up and not remembering her name, but it's happened and it's awful.
So the advice is enjoy it while you young?
I cant help but get the feeling I'm missing out on something.