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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Im guessing its because of male ejactulation. Women can masterbate without too much mess, but when men orgasm the fluids are seen as "mess" in female eyes, and its subsequently seen as "dirty". Also that girls can masterbate more inconspicuously then men can (i.e. under clothing)?

    It seems a common phenomonomonomom though, naked women in adverts/tv/film are always sensuous and seductive, yet the naked male body in comparison is portrayed as humourous or dirty but rarely sexy. So social conditioning maybe?
    It's a taboo subject usually, female mansubation. Male version is more accepted. I never talk about female mansubation with my friends.
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    (Original post by the.white.rabbit)
    Because i just don't like the idea of it...but i am aware that probably every guy i know does do it behind closed doors!!

    Unless they've got a physical problem with carrying out the job, or are religiously against it, I have never heard of a man who didn't regularly enjoy a devil's handshake.

    I'd be amazed to find someone who can genuinely take it or leave it; at least between the ages of 14 and 19, when it's like..universal.
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    (Original post by emmie19)
    No... free erotic film on tv... never seen it on the internet.

    You see, I don't get erections so nothing lol.
    Had a guy mansubate once for me... I was horrified. Not turned on at all.

    I don't like porno chocolate. :p: I prefer slash fiction and erotic fiction... Draco and Harry getting it on... :coma:

    :p:
    Why not?
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    LOL.. Like someone said.. We don't shoot our load.
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    (Original post by emmie19)
    I don't like porno chocolate. :p: I prefer slash fiction and erotic fiction... Draco and Harry getting it on... :coma:

    :p:

    Bet the first thing they did was have a go of each other's wands.
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    (Original post by addylad)
    Why not?
    I felt slightly threatened lol. Though it was on webcam, he did it without me asking and I've never seen a big one so close up. Plus I barely knew him.
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    Ummm, not everyone finds male masturbation disgusting.

    - but i'm what my Grandma calls a whoopsie! lol
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    (Original post by Eradicus)
    Bet the first thing they did was have a go of each other's wands.
    XD No... there's a bit of foreplay... but you know reading it is better, cos you know, you can imagine it, sensations and all... a girl faking a orgasm screaming '**** me' does nothing for me...
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    (Original post by emmie19)
    I felt slightly threatened lol. Though it was on webcam, he did it without me asking and I've never seen a big one so close up. Plus I barely knew him.
    Hmm, I can only imagine how that conversation came about (no pun intended). So he just said he would do it?
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    (Original post by addylad)
    Hmm, I can only imagine how that conversation came about (no pun intended). So he just said he would do it?
    He just stripped off. On webcam. And put the webcam close to his ****
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    (Original post by emmie19)
    He just stripped off. On webcam. And put the webcam close to his ****
    Bizarre!
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    (Original post by addylad)
    Bizarre!
    Def. I blocked him haha.
    Oh, and I saw him ejectate :eek:
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    (Original post by emmie19)
    Def. I blocked him haha.
    Oh, and I saw him ejectate :eek:

    You got that far?
    Was it morbid curiosity or just the teensiest slither of guilty enjoyment? come on, we're all friends here, you can be honest! :p:
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    (Original post by Eradicus)
    You got that far?
    Was it morbid curiosity or just the teensiest slither of guilty enjoyment? come on, we're all friends here, you can be honest! :p:
    Morbid curiousity. And I got a drink... I needed a drink...
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    Both male and female masturbation are quite taboo in society. I know very few girls will, in person, admit to masturbation. Male is more accepted, but just not as nice. Fingering is an art, so many special spots :ninja:
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    emmie19 you should end this line of conversation. Is there a person you haven't told this story to?
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    (Original post by emmie19)
    Morbid curiousity. And I got a drink... I needed a drink...
    The internet really does bring out the best in people doesn't it?
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    (Original post by Eradicus)
    The internet really does bring out the best in people doesn't it?
    It truely does :p: I'm not usually a drinker though...
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    Because the thought and image of a mans hand around his meat kebab just doesn't seem to look nice because it looks like a sausage and you just had a sausage sarnie for lunch.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm just wondering, female masturbation is seen as a sexy, fine thing to do, with many males watching videos of it etc. But male is teh complete opposite, many females are disgusted and definatly wouldn't watch it on video.


    Why is this?
    I didn't know male masturbation was seen as bad. I think it is perfectly normal and healthy.
 
 
 
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