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    Just really wondering how everyone feels about this, but mainly the girls.
    Would you have a one night stand if you were single and you knew no one else would ever find out/know?? It doesnt have to be drunken..
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    Why does it matter whether anyone finds out. If you're both single, why the hell not?
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    Never ever. There is little, if any, good.
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    I would have said no but I met my boyfriend this way and I wouldn't change it for anything.

    I was going to go anon but oh, who cares?
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    I don't think there's anything wrong with it. If you're both single, there's really no problem.
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    I don't see anything wrong with it, so I would.
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    I dont agree with one night stands but if people are drunk i can see why they do it.
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    I really can't understand this taboo about sex. It's normal to have sex.
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    Where is the love?

    I dont think men or women should have casual sex. But if they do they need to make sure theyre safe, especially the women, cause she could be left with a baby and not even know the dads 1st name.
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    Whats the definition of a one night stand? Seriously.

    I went to visit my friend at uni and slept with someone i met that night and i know that was a one night stand, but i've also slept with a kind of holiday fling and someone i had been seeing on and off but wasn't in a relationship with...would you say they were one night stands?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Whats the definition of a one night stand? Seriously.

    I went to visit my friend at uni and slept with someone i met that night and i know that was a one night stand, but i've also slept with a kind of holiday fling and someone i had been seeing on and off but wasn't in a relationship with...would you say they were one night stands?
    Imo its having sex with someone that your a) not in a relationship with and b) have no intention of starting a relationship with

    So the holiday fling id say yer that counts, the second one depends on whether you thought it could lead to something
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    Firstly... i've had this experience.

    Eurgh.

    The guy and i promised not to tell anyone, yes fine.

    HOWEVER.

    When i was walking home, i saw a lad from college that knows i do not live the way i was coming so he assumed i was up to something anyway.

    Then the next minute, everyone knows about it (how i do not know, i know it was not the guy) and i'm being called a slut!


    Lulz.
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    I'd do it if everyone found out.

    Sometimes things can be just about teh secks.
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    I don't think there's anything wrong with one night stands if they're two consenting single people. I would (and have). And I don't think it's anything to be ashamed of so if someone found out it wouldn't be the end of the world.
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    Nope I wouldnt, I only sleep with people I love/am in a relationship with.
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    I've had quite a few one night stands I don't know what the issue is as long as you both want it, only 3 of them were drunken to be honest and I was usually out with friends the nights I had them to they know about them anyway
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    I've had 2 almost one night stands.

    Probably shouldn't have admitted that on here. :\
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    I just comes down to whether you want to sleep with someone you don't really know just because they're hot. I'm not going to judge but others will.
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    (Original post by elisabethbridge)
    I don't think there's anything wrong with one night stands if they're two consenting single people. I would (and have). And I don't think it's anything to be ashamed of so if someone found out it wouldn't be the end of the world.
    Yep This.
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    I wouldn't care if people found out or not tbh.
    I'd just be happy for a bit of fun
    Anyone desperate for some? haha.
 
 
 
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