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    Keep anon please.

    I was wondering, what do guys think of girls with really large hanging inner labia, would it put them off having sex with the girl? Just curious.
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    It probably wouldn't put them off unless they were really shallow, a vagina is a vagina.
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    i think like most men i have a preference but that in no way means i would be put off by something else....probably the same with girls, if you're close enough with a guy to have sex with him, you're unlikely to say no if his penis isn't exactly what you like.

    dont get paranoid about it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Keep anon please.

    I was wondering, what do guys think of girls with really large hanging inner labia, would it put them off having sex with the girl? Just curious.
    Variety is the spice of life. They come in all shapes and sizes, etc.

    So no, it wouldn't put me off in the slightest.
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    No wouldn't put me off at all
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    Like everyone has said - we all have our preferences, but won't be put off by it (just like boobs )... actually, as long as you have boobs then a guy is happy.. I know I am
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    But most guys "preferences" are for really small, right? I just feel like guys might get freaked out, or feel disgusted, I'm seriously abnormal
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    But most guys "preferences" are for really small, right? I just feel like guys might get freaked out, or feel disgusted, I'm seriously abnormal
    Believe me you are not abormal...lots of girls have larger labia and people have only come to believe smaller ones are the norm because of porn. There's absolutely no point in worrying about it unless you intend to get surgery which is just unncessary unless its causing you actual physical discomfort.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    But most guys "preferences" are for really small, right? I just feel like guys might get freaked out, or feel disgusted, I'm seriously abnormal
    Guys don't really have preferences, they just go "NOM NOM NOM!"
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    Believe me you are not abormal...lots of girls have larger labia and people have only come to believe smaller ones are the norm because of porn. There's absolutely no point in worrying about it unless you intend to get surgery which is just unncessary unless its causing you actual physical discomfort.

    I do intend to get surgery when I can afford it. Not because of dicomfrot as such, but just because I feel like a freak. I know that lots of girls have largER labia, mine are just weirdly, freakishly big, and I'm ashamed every time I sleep with a guy, and wont let a guy go down on me EVER because I feel like I'm just so disgusting looking down there.

    Also, I hate wearing bikinis or underwear in front of friends because it looks so weird, its like I have a bulge or something lol! Its just so weird, and I want to be able to feel like I can be in a state of undress and still be confident, not be trying to cover up this really disgusting and embarrassing thing.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I do intend to get surgery when I can afford it. Not because of dicomfrot as such, but just because I feel like a freak. I know that lots of girls have largER labia, mine are just weirdly, freakishly big, and I'm ashamed every time I sleep with a guy, and wont let a guy go down on me EVER because I feel like I'm just so disgusting looking down there.

    Also, I hate wearing bikinis or underwear in front of friends because it looks so weird, its like I have a bulge or something lol! Its just so weird, and I want to be able to feel like I can be in a state of undress and still be confident, not be trying to cover up this really disgusting and embarrassing thing.
    Nooo, don't get the surgery!!! Labia that have been surgically made smaller never look the same as naturally small ones anyway. Have you googled before and after pics? Plus I've read a lot of horror stories about botched operations where they've actually ended up removing the entire labia or causing loss of sensation by damaging nerves. I bet they're not as big as you think they are. I understand you might feel like a freak but seriously you're not...I don't know what else to say lol but it would a lot better if you just accepted that you're normal and this is the way you're born. But if you're intent on getting the surgery then I guess you will.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I do intend to get surgery when I can afford it. Not because of dicomfrot as such, but just because I feel like a freak. I know that lots of girls have largER labia, mine are just weirdly, freakishly big, and I'm ashamed every time I sleep with a guy, and wont let a guy go down on me EVER because I feel like I'm just so disgusting looking down there.

    Also, I hate wearing bikinis or underwear in front of friends because it looks so weird, its like I have a bulge or something lol! Its just so weird, and I want to be able to feel like I can be in a state of undress and still be confident, not be trying to cover up this really disgusting and embarrassing thing.
    Well, it's important to view this with an important mind. You come asking for opinion, which has all been positive, yet you seem intent on getting the snip! If what we say can persuade you, then you should remember that woman throughout time have had larger labia than you and lived with it. There are also men in the world who love large labia, so you might luck out on that too.

    The most important thing to remember is no-one else, and I mean no-one will care about it. The only person that matters is you. Surgery is an expensive option and is very risky, as Tinket has mentioned. It might be worthdoing a lot of reserch on the internet and think it through very carefully.

    It's not disgusting or embarrasing, it's perfectly natural. What I think you need is to challenge your viwepoint of yourself.
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    Thankyou all, I do appreciate it. I just feel like, although its acceptable and natural, its still very rarely attractive to a guy. I feel like I'd rather look good down there and feel like its attractive, rather than just thinking "well it's weird, but he'll put up with it and not make a fuss". Do you know waht I mean?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Thankyou all, I do appreciate it. I just feel like, although its acceptable and natural, its still very rarely attractive to a guy. I feel like I'd rather look good down there and feel like its attractive, rather than just thinking "well it's weird, but he'll put up with it and not make a fuss". Do you know waht I mean?
    I completely know what you mean but have you fully researched labiaplasty? I once found this thread on a forum through Google where some women were sharing their horror experiences about it and saying that it wasn't worth it. I wish I could find it again but I can't. And I don't think surgically altered labia look as nice as naturally small ones anyway, they just look unnatural. Argh, there isn't really anything else I can say, this just frustrates me. But ah well, I hope you will learn to accept yourself before you do anything drastic like surgery.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Thankyou all, I do appreciate it. I just feel like, although its acceptable and natural, its still very rarely attractive to a guy. I feel like I'd rather look good down there and feel like its attractive, rather than just thinking "well it's weird, but he'll put up with it and not make a fuss". Do you know waht I mean?
    Well that's subjective. In my experience, most men couldn't care less and that's not because "they don't want to make a fuss". A vagina is a vagina. If we get down there, it is always attractive!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I do intend to get surgery when I can afford it. Not because of dicomfrot as such, but just because I feel like a freak. I know that lots of girls have largER labia, mine are just weirdly, freakishly big, and I'm ashamed every time I sleep with a guy, and wont let a guy go down on me EVER because I feel like I'm just so disgusting looking down there.

    Also, I hate wearing bikinis or underwear in front of friends because it looks so weird, its like I have a bulge or something lol! Its just so weird, and I want to be able to feel like I can be in a state of undress and still be confident, not be trying to cover up this really disgusting and embarrassing thing.
    I am EXACTLY like you and I am getting a labiaplasty in the new year.
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    No, not at all.
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    (Original post by Antonia87)
    I am EXACTLY like you and I am getting a labiaplasty in the new year.

    Lucky you for being able to afford it!
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    (Original post by QwentyJ)
    Well that's subjective. In my experience, most men couldn't care less and that's not because "they don't want to make a fuss". A vagina is a vagina. If we get down there, it is always attractive!
    This.

    Obviously there will be very shallow guys put off by it but then why would you ever want to be with a guy who was that shallow in the first place?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Lucky you for being able to afford it!
    Oh I cant afford it. Its been a long, long time of scrimping and saving.
 
 
 
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