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Is it wrong to have a relationship with someone when you still love your ex? watch


    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yeah but in situations like mine, my bf at the time didn't make much effort and didn't want me to sleep over much because he felt like he was cheating thinking about his ex. Didn't tell me this at the time, never mentioned his ex, just turned things on me and dumped me because i questioned things.

    Well apparently he did find someone better than the previous one (like you). But for you i can only say this, get over him and move on, you'll end up with someone better.

    I know its hard to get over people, i have been through it but its possible....Goodluck!
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    (Original post by FlyingIsis)
    It's understandable that you're annoyed, and I agree it's wrong to see somebody new when you are still in love with your ex. However, from his point of view he may have been genuinely trying to get over her, and it would have been very difficult for him to be open about his feelings as obviously it would have hurt you (which lead to you feeling paranoid trying to imagine what was going on with him)...he probably thought that by being with you he was moving on, but when it came to the crunch he wasn't ready.
    He obviously had/has feelings for you, but you are better off not being involved with someone who is emotionally unavailable.
    I'm sorry for your pain and anger, it's a difficult situation but such is life

    Isn't that a contraction? saying he was with me to get over someone else implying thats the only reason he was with me, using me, and there were not feelings there. yet you said he obviously had feelings for me...?

    It's not a contradiction - I didn't say he was with you solely to get over her -he can still have feelings for you whilst not being totally over her
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