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    I'm not even sure if its a turn on, maybe a fetish...
    Please keep anon as this is embarassing, delete if people start giving inappropriate replies


    Okay so I always thought this was normal until my boyfs reaction.
    My biggest turn on is to make him ***. I mean seriously, I think there's nothing more sexy. I'm more bothered about his orgasm than my own. When I fantasise its about where he'll come, what I'll do to him to make him ***...etc. At first he loved it but I think now he thinks I'm a bit weird (also he gets a bit tired!)

    I'm starting to worry that its abnormal? Do you think its a fetish? Will it affect future relationships? I don't wanna freak guys out
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    I'm sure they love it to be honest, lol.
    I can see why they'd be a bit freaked out eventually though because they like making us orgasm too - they like to feel like they're doing something right; ego boost and all that.

    To be honest I'm exactly the same as you OP. Don't worry about it, I wouldn't say it's abnormal at all. And at least we're not selfish
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    Same, tbh.

    EDIT: But actually, I do like a good orgasm myself :ninja:
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    Number and address please :love:
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    Damn, sounds hot and it's not abnormal, every straight guy practically gets off on this stuff lol. You can tell me where to *** any day luv.
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    aaah that is soo kl i'd love to be your bf right now..
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    Don't worry at all.
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    I can see no reason why any male would be annoyed or weirded out by this.
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    Your BF is a freak and you should leave him for somebody more accepting of your generous ways :yes:
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    (Original post by Antimatter)
    Same, tbh.

    EDIT: But actually, I do like a good orgasm myself :ninja:
    This pretty much
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    Where have you been all my life Op?
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    I am also female.. and I am the same as you .. I think there is nothing that can turn me on more than my man "coming"

    I don't know why.. it's just the way we are.. I guess lol

    I don't think its weird.. your bf is a lucky boy
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    Jesus. Reading the first post gave me the horn.
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    It's not abnormal at all.
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    ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with this..

    You aren't a freak or weird, you're a bloody saint
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    he should be happy that you're putting HIS feelings before your own
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    Girls like this are great, I wish my gf was a cumslut. (for me only obv)
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    I just came...

    OP wanna clean it up? :ninja:
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    I love it. Making a girl come is really very hot. Can think of nothing more sexy - even if I don't.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm not even sure if its a turn on, maybe a fetish...
    Please keep anon as this is embarassing, delete if people start giving inappropriate replies


    Okay so I always thought this was normal until my boyfs reaction.
    My biggest turn on is to make him ***. I mean seriously, I think there's nothing more sexy. I'm more bothered about his orgasm than my own. When I fantasise its about where he'll come, what I'll do to him to make him ***...etc. At first he loved it but I think now he thinks I'm a bit weird (also he gets a bit tired!)

    I'm starting to worry that its abnormal? Do you think its a fetish? Will it affect future relationships? I don't wanna freak guys out
    i knew a girl who said this was her fetish, so im guessing its yours too. didnt freak me out when she told me i just thought ......fair enough
 
 
 
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