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    Hehe Ok that's a quote from 'Friends' but my question is related. :yep:

    Has anyone been out of a relationship, not kissed anyone or had sex in so long that it's almost like you've forgotten what it's like?

    After being out of a relationship for so long (like YEARS), I'm seeing a new guy and it honestly feels like I'm doing everything again for the first time! Is this normal or do I just have terrible procedural memory? :stupid:
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    Yeah I had that, was strange. More so with kissing than the sex though.
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    Well I've never had sex so wouldn't know about that but yeah I know what you mean about being away from relationships and not kissing anyone for such a long time that you forget what it's like. My two relationships were really far apart and only short lived and never really took off so I always feel like I've never actually been in a relationship, not a proper one anyway. I kissed a girl a week or two ago and that's the last time but before that was over a year and yeah it felt like I was experiencing it all over again for the first time.
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    yes, although i think i'd still remember how to do everything (a years supply of cosmo came in handy!) i'd be more nervous than usual.
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    Im just seeing someone new and im determined to wait till the 3rd or 4th meeting to have sex, is this ok? Im 22 and i need to ask :rolleyes:
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    hopefully its like learning to swim. you learn it once and you remember it for life. or was that riding a bike? damn i need to find out cos i plan to go to the sea soon :eek3:
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    (Original post by abrp)


    hopefully its like learning to swim. you learn it once and you remember it for life. or was that riding a bike? damn i need to find out cos i plan to go to the sea soon :eek3:
    learning to swim, learning to drive and learning to ride a bike :yep:
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    I feel embarrassed i knew exactly where this quote came from lmao ..but i looove friends
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    It's been so long since you've had sex you're wondering if they've changed it?
    hahaha :p:

    yes, been there sadly
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    So far we've only kissed and it was really weird, like I'd never done it before, even though I have plenty of experience with past boyfriends. My last kiss was 2 years ago though! :p:
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    Yeah, when I was kissed a couple of weeks ago after not having kissed for like months/possibly a year it was really strange ... like learning all over again :facepalm: Oh dearrrr. Sad times...
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    (Original post by Trigger)
    Im just seeing someone new and im determined to wait till the 3rd or 4th meeting to have sex, is this ok? Im 22 and i need to ask :rolleyes:
    hehehe, but why should you wait if you wanna do it!
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    A year ago I brought a twenty month long dry period to an end. Those months were bad times. :no: Luckily things haven't been that bad since then.
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    I think the last time I had sex the wheel was being heralded as the next big thing.
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    Yep, haven't even kissed anyone in over a year. It's gonna be very strange when (if ) I next get the opportunity :p:
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    Its been very long for me

    About 24 hours to be exact.

    What a hard life.

    I hope it doesnt change though :P
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    (Original post by Trigger)
    Im just seeing someone new and im determined to wait till the 3rd or 4th meeting to have sex, is this ok? Im 22 and i need to ask :rolleyes:
    If you want to wait that long then wait that long, but the guy might not hang around (no pun intended).
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    Ok so both the quotes i got in this thread are completely retarded :rolleyes: big round of applause to you both.
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    Well considering I didn't get started until I was 21, and it's only been around 3 months since I last had sex, it doesn't seem like it was that long ago.
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    My relationship ended a year ago, since then I've kissed about three people on nights out, and it's just weird... I felt like I'd forgotten

    If you've been kissing someone pretty much every day over the last six months, then suddenly zilch, it is hard to remember how.

    Sigh.
 
 
 
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