Nope. Had one once who was a lot older than me. Her feelings developed and she started talking about settling down, starting a family with me and we weren't even going out with each other. Not good, especially as i specifically told her that i didnt want a relationship as i was going to uni etc etc and she agreed. In a perfect world where there was a perfect guarentee of no feelings coming about then yeah. But as it isnt a perfect world, never.
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- 05-08-2009 16:54
- 05-08-2009 17:24
Yes... but its not just 'sex buddies'... more like certain male friends who I often end up sharing a bed with. I dont get the whole secrecy thing though.. everyone in my social group knows whos sleeping with who and it makes things much easier.
(Original post by Lil' Flo)
- 05-08-2009 19:24
well ur right
but its all about precautions - you may think you can handle the criticism, but you find you can't
if you can really ignore it, all well and good, but if not - its better kept a secret
oh, i really havent heard people's opinions/stories 'bout casual sex in uni
- 05-08-2009 19:26
"Friends with benefits" is questionable, but "best friends with benefits" would be OK.
- 05-08-2009 19:32
No, because I know myself well enough to know that I would gain feelings for that person.
- 05-08-2009 19:33
I have but wouldn't again. It was fun til it got too much for me to handle and my feelings got v strong (luckily he didn't realise I was getting hurt as I'm sure he would have broken it off, and I'm glad we didn't because we got together eventually at Christmas after 6 months of... torture.)