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    GQ Magazine called it "The Girlfriend Experience"
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    Sorry for "bumping" this, but I think I know the site being referred to on here. I have certainly used it to book a few dates and think it is great fun. For open-minded easy going girls who follow sensible common sense rules, I think it can be great - certainly I've had good feedback on the girls I dated using it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hi,

    I recently came across a site where members register, put up a profile and set a price in which men or women pay to take them on a dinner date.

    I know this is a form of escorting, but being a girl who's slightly strapped for cash it's spurred my interest somewhat.

    I'm just wondering what people think about this type of thing. If i was to do it i'd make the dates fully aware they were paying me for a date only and not sex, or anything sexual and if they were still willing then fine.

    Many people go on dates every day with strangers - why not be paid for it? I don't see anything wrong with people with a lot of money wanting to spend it making sure they are in the company of a good looking person if that's what they desire.

    I really do feel it to be different to prostitution and i guess i'm just seeing what other girls (or guys?) think.

    Good way to make a bit of extra cash or a form of prostitution? Some of these guys pay the girls £200 just to take them to dinner!

    You probably will get loads of guys who simply understand its a date type of thing. You probably will make alot of money. You also will probably encounter dangerous situations, and you better hope you can handle them.
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    (Original post by naruto1221903)
    You probably will get loads of guys who simply understand its a date type of thing. You probably will make alot of money. You also will probably encounter dangerous situations, and you better hope you can handle them.
    Of course sex is expected, don't be so naive
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    (Original post by Awesome-o)
    Of course sex is expected, don't be so naive
    Pot calling the kettle black to be honest. You're the naive one. ALOT of men actually pay for escorts to accompany them on events/dinners etc, and pose as someone, a girlfriend, important date etc etc, they dont all look for sex, believe it or not.
    But yes, the majority of men probably will be, and if she isnt prepared for that, her naivety will cost her.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hi,

    I recently came across a site where members register, put up a profile and set a price in which men or women pay to take them on a dinner date.

    I know this is a form of escorting, but being a girl who's slightly strapped for cash it's spurred my interest somewhat.

    I'm just wondering what people think about this type of thing. If i was to do it i'd make the dates fully aware they were paying me for a date only and not sex, or anything sexual and if they were still willing then fine.

    Many people go on dates every day with strangers - why not be paid for it? I don't see anything wrong with people with a lot of money wanting to spend it making sure they are in the company of a good looking person if that's what they desire.

    I really do feel it to be different to prostitution and i guess i'm just seeing what other girls (or guys?) think.

    Good way to make a bit of extra cash or a form of prostitution? Some of these guys pay the girls £200 just to take them to dinner!
    your very very naive.

    think about it - some guy is paying you however many hundreds of pounds purely for the pleasure of your company - wow you think a lot of yourself?

    Your an escort which means sex is never advertised but expected and if you dont and word gets around you wont get any buisness
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    Free food that you don't have to cook? A night out of the house meeting someone new? Alcohol? AND you get paid?! Sign me up!
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    (Original post by emmie19)
    Four words: What a desperate ******!
    I agree with you Emmie! There are much better ways to make money, I'd rather clean toilets (then again, I'd rather clean toilets than work in a call centre lol. At least you get your privacy and can listen to music etc ).

    I wish more people thought like you I say wherever there's smoke, usually there's a bit of fire... ie. best left alone.

    But yeah, I suppose to answer the OP's question, there's nothing illegally wrong with it :rolleyes: I guess it beats stealing/drug dealing etc *sigh*
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Haha i'd love it if i made loads of money for a simple date for a couple of hours. How long would it take you to make £500 at your job? Certainly more than 2 hours


    And....... you don't have to have sex with them.

    if i was paying you £500 i would expect more than a bit of friendly conversation. sorry.

    you may get the odd super rich business man who just wants to "talk" about his troubles in life ..etc etc ..but the majority are going to be wanting some cold hard sex at the end of night and to think otherwise is just being nieve
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    I bet I know the site you mean.

    I've been on dates from there. Never had a problem, great fun.
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    Yes Devongirl - I think we are talking about the same site. A great way for us guy to meet interesting younger women and a great way for them to earn good money and have fun.
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    (Original post by daveroberts79)
    Yes Devongirl - I think we are talking about the same site. A great way for us guy to meet interesting younger women and a great way for them to earn good money and have fun.
    I know this site too.

    A girl I was at university with was an 'escort' with them for quite a while. She went on dates, never had sex with any of the men, and didn't seem to have any problems at all.

    I signed up but the first guy that messaged me had a wife and kids and I didn't think that would be fun at all - mostly because if he has a wife and kids, he shouldn't be having anything to do with young girls.

    But yes, I think it's harmless as long as you're safe.
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    I think many of the guys who use sites like this are married and probably with kids. If you are in a drab marriage, you might not want to get divorced but just need some spice adding to your life. Strangely many of the wives know about it, or certainly choose to ignore it, as it keeps their men happy and stops them being pestered for sex!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    but the first guy that messaged me had a wife and kids and I didn't think that would be fun at all
    Several of the guys I've met through the site have been married.

    I don't see it as a problem, I'm just careful not to get too carried away.

    At the end of the day it's down to their conscience.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yeah i know, but a couple of hundred pound dor a few hours of converstation with someone? Hmmm.....
    You want 200 quids without even putting out?
    I seriously hope you get raped in the arse.
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    The girls I have met through the site treat it like dating - if they are attracted to the guys they are dating, they will consider going further, and treat the fact that they get paid for it as a bonus compared to a normal date. I can't see the problem myself.
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    What is the site? Could someone tell me?
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    some people r so small minded is unbelievable how is it desprate she is not having sex with them she is getting paid to be wined and dined people probably including urselves have been out wid loads of guys for dinner and probably had sex with them or one night stands so what makes u fink what u do is any different from what they do if thats the case ur just as degrading
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    The site seems to be defunct now anyway.
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    don't see why anyone would use that site. you're only going to attract selfish whoring *****es who don't care about you and will leach off you
 
 
 
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