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    Hi everyone.

    Am at uni and theres this guy off my course I really really like. I've never had a boyfriend before and so am rubbish and hopeless at these kinda things.

    I liked him straight away, been facebooking him loads and and we've been for a drink etc. Planning a night out over the hols soon. We're not like close friends or anything though.

    I can't tell if hes looking for a girlfriend or not. He has LOTS of female friends (which I have no problem with) but it makes it harder for me to see if he likes me or not. I know he likes me as in generally..but I really don't know. Hes shy as well.

    Some of my friends say I should go for it as we're meeting up for night out over hols, others say to just be friends for a while first....but I really really like him I don't know what to do...
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    I don't see the need to 'ask him out' at all. Just see how things go, who knows, maybe your night out will end in a kiss

    Maybe you are overthinking it? Just let things happen. If the two of you are going out alone then I'm sure he has an idea that you like him :yep:
 
 
 
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