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    (Original post by Dionysia)
    Ergh. Helpful comments, much.

    Ask him to take them down. Explain how you feel about it - it's essentially him looking at porn while you two are having sex, and if you're not comfortable with it, something should be done about it. alternatively, plaster your walls with photos of naked men and see how he likes it. Seriously, though, talk to him. If he's a decent guy, I'm sure you can come to a compromise - he should care about how you feel and if it's making you feel uncomfortable and insecure then he should do something about it, just as you hopefully would if it were the other way round.
    lol. definitely this.
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    It would irritate me too!

    You should talk to him though, often boys don't even think about how girls feel in these situations. But as someone said, say you feel too distracted to have sex, he'll prioritise!
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    (Original post by emmie19)
    Let me think... you're willing to have sex with him totally naked, as long as he's takes the posters down for you??

    Ask him to take them down, I'm sure sure he's more into sex then mansubation :p:
    Hey! Haven't seen you in a while
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    I don't really understand what the big deal is to be honest. If it's bothering you that much, talk to him about it. If you can't bring yourself to discuss such a trivial matter, then you really shouldn't be having sex.

    His reaction will depend on which one he prefers more, ******* you or masturbating over the posters.
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    (Original post by Irrelevance)
    If it wasn't convincing enough, he's blatantly gay. Win win situation. :p:
    :rofl: I just hope the mum doesn't clean up the room...

    Had my male friend talk to my naked in the morning on MSN (shudders) not want I want to think about... :eek:

    I ask if he's wearing boxers now :p:
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    (Original post by carlosb)
    Hey! Haven't seen you in a while
    Oh hi You on MSN? I'm not signed in. Big TSR day today... on fb IM though. Hows you? Wubu2?
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    (Original post by emmie19)
    Let me think... you're willing to have sex with him totally naked, as long as he's takes the posters down for you??

    Ask him to take them down, I'm sure sure he's more into sex then mansubation :p:
    Would it make if difference if she wasn't totally naked? :lolwut:
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    why are you looking at the walls? is he that ugly?
    :p:

    no seriously, just tell him they make you feel uncomfortable n see what he says, he might take them down or maybe just make you feel a bit better about them being there.
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    (Original post by emmie19)
    Had my male friend talk to my naked in the morning on MSN (shudders) not want I want to think about... :eek:

    I ask if he's wearing boxers now :p:
    What, if any, relevance does this have to do with solving the problem of too many nude posters on the wall?! Oh, I get it. You simply felt the need to mention this to get us all thinking about your friend talking to you nude in MSN.

    Were you naked too? :teeth:
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    why dont you, let him nail you in another room, but your bf is a bit of a freak having pics of naked girls all over his bedroom wall
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    (Original post by voudreau)
    Would it make if difference if she wasn't totally naked? :lolwut:
    Maybe I don't understand the male nude poster mind... but read the thread title... the nude posters are a major problem for her in having sex!
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    (Original post by emmie19)
    Oh hi You on MSN? I'm not signed in. Big TSR day today... on fb IM though. Hows you? Wubu2?
    Nop, I haven't been there in a long time! I'm great! Getting ready to move, only 2 weeks left eheh How are you?
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    Shut your eyes.
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    (Original post by Dionysia)
    Ergh. Helpful comments, much.

    Ask him to take them down. Explain how you feel about it - it's essentially him looking at porn while you two are having sex, and if you're not comfortable with it, something should be done about it. alternatively, plaster your walls with photos of naked men and see how he likes it. Seriously, though, talk to him. If he's a decent guy, I'm sure you can come to a compromise - he should care about how you feel and if it's making you feel uncomfortable and insecure then he should do something about it, just as you hopefully would if it were the other way round.
    we don't know he's look at them whilst having sex with her
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    Tell him to take them down. If he's over 14 he won't care. I'm sure he'd much rather get the real thing than some airbrushed poster with glazed over eyes.
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    I don't really understand why a grown up would have these posters myself? What do you get from it? I can see why it would be distracting. If my girlfriend had pictures of men on her walls it'd put me off.

    Tell him. Obviously.
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    (Original post by Irrelevance)
    What, if any, relevance does this have to do with solving the problem of too many nude posters on the wall?! Oh, I get it. You simply felt the need to mention this to get us all thinking about your friend talking to you nude in MSN.

    Were you naked too? :teeth:
    :rofl: No. I wear clothes at all times, apart from bathes. We're mates lol...

    And you wish :p:
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    (Original post by Irrelevance)
    Suggest shagging against the wall would be "really hot" and use the friction generated to damage the posters beyond salvation. Move onto each wall until a satisfactory amount of posters have been damaged.
    I read that as 'use the friction generated to damage the posters beyond salvation' and was like WHUT, why are they going to salivate all over the posters.
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    (Original post by carlosb)
    Nop, I haven't been there in a long time! I'm great! Getting ready to move, only 2 weeks left eheh How are you?
    I'm good, might be going to stay at TVU for another year for a Access course. All depends on results and what I decide to do. Working at Mc Donalds now... I'm loving it! :p: Everyone there is nice, made a mate on my second day, been texting and even my boss is nice. Haven't messed up too much...

    So you staying in Cambridge then? Good luck. Bet you're excited.
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