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    I don't understand how you can be close enough to be having sex, yet are stumped when it comes to how to ask him to take down posters of nude women.
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    (Original post by emmie19)
    Maybe I don't understand the male nude poster mind... but read the thread title... the nude posters are a major problem for her in having sex!
    Sex naked or non-naked is better than just looking at a poster :yep: Win either way imo.

    OP - either ask him to remove them or learn to appreciate the female form. I think you will go for the former but the latter would be an interesting twist!!
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    You could shock horror, talk to him and say how you feel? Perhaps, just perhaps, he'll react like a decent human being and take your feelings into consideration and remove the posters?

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    (Original post by voudreau)
    Sex naked or non-naked is better than just looking at a poster :yep: Win either way imo.

    OP - either ask him to remove them or learn to appreciate the female form. I think you will go for the former but the latter would be an interesting twist!!
    Meh. Sex naked... six packs! :coma:

    OP, your bf appreciates the female form anyway, in a handyman sort of way :p:
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    I agree with the idea of putting up posters of naked men and seeing his reaction.
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    (Original post by emmie19)
    And you wish :p:
    Darn. You were incredibly hot for a second, then.
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    (Original post by emmie19)
    I'm good, might be going to stay at TVU for another year for a Access course. All depends on results and what I decide to do. Working at Mc Donalds now... I'm loving it! :p: Everyone there is nice, made a mate on my second day, been texting and even my boss is nice. Haven't messed up too much...

    So you staying in Cambridge then? Good luck. Bet you're excited.
    Cool! And I see you have a bf now, that's great! :bigsmile:
    Yeah I'm excited and a little nervous lol but it's all good.
    We can catch up later on msn
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    I don't think it would be unreasonable to ask him to take them down to be fair.
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    (Original post by emmie19)
    Meh. Sex naked... six packs! :coma:

    OP, your bf appreciates the female form anyway, in a handyman sort of way :p:
    I meant for the OP to learn appreciation for the female form :p:

    Six pack? Take a cold shower you!
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    (Original post by Irrelevance)
    Darn. You were incredibly hot for a second, then.
    Lol, well you know the whole not a slut thing :p:
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    (Original post by voudreau)
    I meant for the OP to learn appreciation for the female form :p:

    Six pack? Take a cold shower you!
    It's broken A nice steamy bath then :p:
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    (Original post by Dionysia)
    Ergh. Helpful comments, much.

    Ask him to take them down. Explain how you feel about it - it's essentially him looking at porn while you two are having sex, and if you're not comfortable with it, something should be done about it. alternatively, plaster your walls with photos of naked men and see how he likes it. Seriously, though, talk to him. If he's a decent guy, I'm sure you can come to a compromise - he should care about how you feel and if it's making you feel uncomfortable and insecure then he should do something about it, just as you hopefully would if it were the other way round.
    why should he take them down.. it's his prerogative to have posters on his wall if he likes..
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    Low life
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    tellhimtellhimtellhim, and he will, otherwise hes an idiot
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    (Original post by Dionysia)
    It's essentially him looking at porn while you two are having sex, and if you're not comfortable with it, something should be done about it.
    Yeah I agree, its not polite to you in my opinion if hes looking at dodgy photographs etc.
    Talk to him about it or alternatively, try a different room? Just a suggestion, tak it or leave it lol.
    =)
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    TSR H&R threads just get better and better everyday :rofl:
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    Haha I would think "look at me, the roles have reversed, instead of watching you porn stars have sex, you're watching me have sex!" and would giggle throughout sex

    LOL my boyfriend has friggin slipknot on the wall with their masks and ****! I just think of them as my audience, hopefully not them giving me a golden shower!
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    (Original post by lost_puppy)
    Haha I would think "look at me, the roles have reversed, instead of watching you porn stars have sex, you're watching me have sex!" and would giggle throughout sex

    LOL my boyfriend has friggin slipknot on the wall with their masks and ****! I just think of them as my audience, hopefully not them giving me a golden shower!
    That really cheered me up! lol thank you :gthumb:
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    yeh he sounds like a chav...
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    (Original post by Dionysia)
    Ergh. Helpful comments, much.

    Ask him to take them down. Explain how you feel about it - it's essentially him looking at porn while you two are having sex, and if you're not comfortable with it, something should be done about it. alternatively, plaster your walls with photos of naked men and see how he likes it. Seriously, though, talk to him. If he's a decent guy, I'm sure you can come to a compromise - he should care about how you feel and if it's making you feel uncomfortable and insecure then he should do something about it, just as you hopefully would if it were the other way round.
    +1

    Talk to him, explain how you feel and if he's a decent enough guy he'll appreciate that you might not want to see naked women out of the corner of your eye whilst you're having sex and that it is a little off putting.
 
 
 
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