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    A couple of months ago, I had a one night stand with a guy. I went into it not expecting anything. I've had one night stands in the past before and never bothered trying to stay in contact.

    We talk to one another occasionally on facebook and MSN. After that night, and over the last few weeks I've found myself thinking about him more and more. This time it was different...I actually felt like there was a connection.

    Anyway, a few days ago we were talking on MSN and the topic got onto that night we spent together. I decided to tell him that I felt there was something between us (I find it hard to tell guys how I feel), and he said he felt the same thing. We live in different cities, so it's not like we can easily meet.

    I then said to him that I wouldn't mind re-living that night. What I meant was that I wanted to see him again, using the sex as a jokey way to say it. He of course took it as a 'let's meet up and have shag' suggestion. Which scared him off a bit I think.

    Did saying that come across as a bit slutty, even though I didn't mean it in that way? I feel like I want to explain, but I don't want to seem too pushy in trying to get him to meet up with me.

    He's been online since, but hasn't said anything. I don't want to start a conversation in case I seem too pushy or clingy. What should I do?

    Anon or delete please.

    Just explain it to him, better he knows what you meant than not know. You won't appear too pushy if you don't make a big deal of it. Prehaps start by talking about other things first before mentioing it (:
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