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    (Original post by Bubbles*de*Milo)
    How the **** have you tasted yourself? :confused:

    Some nasty gymnastics going on there...
    Finger in, finger out, mouth?
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    (Original post by Luca118)
    Not even given it to a girl but I really really want to! :/
    Assuming the girl hasn't got any hygiene issues, then its awesome :p:.

    (Original post by bean87)
    from the look of your profile pic you've had her pussy on your forehead. you're doing it wrong
    rofl. I'd be kind of worried if I had anyones pussy on my forehead there anyway.
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    Why can he not..breathe
    Has he forgotten how to breathe in his nose
    he sounds like a bit of a tosser tbh
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    (Original post by chp89)
    me and my boyfriend were in bed last night and he was going down on me (Hes done this about 5 times before but doesnt do it for long and always comes up with an exuse to stop. I really really enjoy it though but last night he did it for a bit thne refused to carry on but wouldnt say why, he eventualy told me that he doesnt like how it tastes and cant breath properly when doing it.

    I got really offended and upset, and imbarrresed, i want him to enjoy doing it, i dont understand why he says i taste funny, im very clean and definetly dont smell, and ive tasted myself and i taste fine it hardly tastes of anything. I dont get what the problem is .. r many guys like this? Were both virgins.


    I also find it very unfair because i am always giving him blowjobs and it doesnt seem fair that i get nothing in return.
    If he doesn't like doing it I think it's a bit unfair for you to not give him oral, he obviously just doesn't like it, he can't help that! If you really didn't like giving oral he would understand wouldn't he? Or am I terribly naive to think any guy wouldn't mind? :o:
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    most men are like that they want the blow job but dont want to lick you out and if they do they dont do it for long but would moan if you stopped sucking them off. same with sex as soon as he has finished thats it. when it comes to sex most men are very selfish as long as there satisifed they dont care and us women are left laying there thinking hmm is that it?
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    (Original post by chp89)
    me and my boyfriend were in bed last night and he was going down on me (Hes done this about 5 times before but doesnt do it for long and always comes up with an exuse to stop. I really really enjoy it though but last night he did it for a bit thne refused to carry on but wouldnt say why, he eventualy told me that he doesnt like how it tastes and cant breath properly when doing it.
    If it's about taste it could be your diet that's making it taste bad, try altering what you eat and see if that makes a difference. Alternatively he could use a dental dam or a flavoured condom ?
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    (Original post by rachael-69)
    most men are like that they want the blow job but dont want to lick you out and if they do they dont do it for long but would moan if you stopped sucking them off. same with sex as soon as he has finished thats it. when it comes to sex most men are very selfish as long as there satisifed they dont care and us women are left laying there thinking hmm is that it?
    You're sleeping with the wrong blokes.

    OP, if he doesn't like it, he doesn't like it. You could try those lick things from Ann Summers, but they can be pretty gross too. Talk to him about it - my boyfriend never used to like it much either, but one day realised it just wasn't all that bad after all
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    If he can't breath then he's doing it wrong, oral isn't like caving. He shouldn't be getting his head stuck anywhere :p:
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    Talk to him or deal with it.
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    i don't get why he can't breathe....I've done it plenty of times and it really isn't difficult. maybe talk to him about technique, or suggest introducing a toy that he can use on you if he's really against it. explain that the likelihood of you orgasming without oral is slim, perhaps he doesn't really realise.
    ditto the suggestions about flavoured stuff, and maybe get him to do it in the bath or shower when it should just taste of water.
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    (Original post by Bubbles*de*Milo)
    How the **** have you tasted yourself? :confused:

    Some nasty gymnastics going on there...
    Watch some porn and learn
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    (Original post by psychocustard)
    You're sleeping with the wrong blokes.

    OP, if he doesn't like it, he doesn't like it. You could try those lick things from Ann Summers, but they can be pretty gross too. Talk to him about it - my boyfriend never used to like it much either, but one day realised it just wasn't all that bad after all
    I would not say im a **** (i know no body said i was) or anything but i have had quite a few sexual partners prob more than average. A few i could understand like after sex when hes took the condom of then yea they would taste the condom I think two liked doing but they both got alot there sexual satisfaction from giving. the rest just wanted blow job then sex. Ive been with the latest bloke for nearly two years and hes never even done it for a second or i dont think hes ever considered it I mentoined it once and he just changed the subject.
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    (Original post by chp89)
    me and my boyfriend were in bed last night and he was going down on me (Hes done this about 5 times before but doesnt do it for long and always comes up with an exuse to stop. I really really enjoy it though but last night he did it for a bit thne refused to carry on but wouldnt say why, he eventualy told me that he doesnt like how it tastes and cant breath properly when doing it.

    I got really offended and upset, and imbarrresed, i want him to enjoy doing it, i dont understand why he says i taste funny, im very clean and definetly dont smell, and ive tasted myself and i taste fine it hardly tastes of anything. I dont get what the problem is .. r many guys like this? Were both virgins.


    I also find it very unfair because i am always giving him blowjobs and it doesnt seem fair that i get nothing in return.
    :eek:
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    Mail me, ill do it for you
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    (Original post by rachael-69)
    most men are like that they want the blow job but dont want to lick you out and if they do they dont do it for long but would moan if you stopped sucking them off. same with sex as soon as he has finished thats it. when it comes to sex most men are very selfish as long as there satisifed they dont care and us women are left laying there thinking hmm is that it?
    Bitter much??
    We're not all like that you know.
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    (Original post by amy1395)
    Don't do it to him, if he isn't going to return the favour. It's only fair.
    How childish. If he doesn't like it, he doesn't like it. It doesn't make him a bad person or a selfish one. It's not like he's doing it to be spiteful. I don't understand why people have the expectancy that their partner should do the equal of what they themselves are prepared to do. Sex is meant to be enjoyable for both parties and not everyone has the same likes and dislikes.
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    (Original post by Bubbles*de*Milo)
    How the **** have you tasted yourself? :confused:

    Some nasty gymnastics going on there...

    Haha I can't believe it took 18 reply's for someone to say that haha

    I had to look twice at it to believe what i was reading haha
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    (Original post by Lady_KaKa)
    OMDZ, you openly admit on the internet that you've tasted your own minge?! :rofl:
    But then if you feel disgusted to taste it yourself,who on the earth would want to taste it then? :rolleyes:
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    :dontknow:

    Incidentally I don't see what the big deal is with giving and getting in return though tbh. Like just cause you give him oral why does that mean he has to give you oral, and vice versa? As long as everyone is getting off, who cares? I mean if he doesn't enjoy it he doesn't enjoy it, and if not everyone is enjoying it then no one can really enjoy it. I heard that's the gist of "fun".
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    (Original post by rachael-69)
    I would not say im a **** (i know no body said i was) or anything but i have had quite a few sexual partners prob more than average. A few i could understand like after sex when hes took the condom of then yea they would taste the condom I think two liked doing but they both got alot there sexual satisfaction from giving. the rest just wanted blow job then sex. Ive been with the latest bloke for nearly two years and hes never even done it for a second or i dont think hes ever considered it I mentoined it once and he just changed the subject.
    I've had quite a few partners too, but I've never gone away not feeling satisfied, hence why I said that you're possibly sleeping with the wrong blokes. Your boyfriend sounds a bit oodd though - my boyfriend doesn't count it as good sex unless he's made me really happy.
 
 
 
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