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    please keep anon or delete

    okay, sooo i met this guy when was on a gap year in the uk nd we got along great, but nohing ever happened. now, i'll go bakto uni there in september, and when i was drunk i wrote this guy an email, telling him i really like him and i want more than friendship and stuff when im coming back.

    he then wrote back quite a bit, but part of it was:
    "the feeling of liking is mutual, if perhaps not the same"

    and i dont quite know what he tries to say with that ... please some mothertungue english speaker help!!!
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    Means he 'likes' you but not 'likes like' you.
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    he sounds like a Sammy Smartarse to me.
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    that he LIKES you - but perhaps does not want to be more than friends at this stage
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    that line would confuse me too. how can a feeling be both mutual and not the same???

    I think he's trying to let you down gently. Maybe if you post some more of the email we can help further?
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    I think he's trying to say that he prefers the batty.
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    I think he's saying he's fond of you but that he reckons he's not into you as much as you are into him (opinion he gathered from your e-mail). I don't really have any advice because it depends on wether your drunken e-mail accurately portrayed your strength of feelings towards him.
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    He wants to bone you.

    Perhaps.
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    (Original post by Skadoosh)
    He wants to bone you.

    Perhaps.
    :rofl:
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    I think he doesn't know what mutual means.
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    I think it means that he feels the same as you, but was trying to act smart but just obvious fail is obvious'd
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    **** knows.
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    I don't think it's going to happen, sweetheart.

    I think he does know what mutual means. He's saying they both 'like' each other ("the feeling of liking is mutual..."), but not the same way ("...if not the same"). Christ TSR is embarrassing sometimes. :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    please keep anon or delete

    okay, sooo i met this guy when was on a gap year in the uk nd we got along great, but nohing ever happened. now, i'll go bakto uni there in september, and when i was drunk i wrote this guy an email, telling him i really like him and i want more than friendship and stuff when im coming back.

    he then wrote back quite a bit, but part of it was:
    "the feeling of liking is mutual, if perhaps not the same"

    and i dont quite know what he tries to say with that ... please some mothertungue english speaker help!!!
    basically turnd you down
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    Oh i read it again. He means he likes you but in a friendly way and not a getinmepantsNOW way.
 
 
 
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