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    (Original post by Chumbaniya)
    I get absolutely no attention in clubs, and I'm not even bad looking. I've pulled in a club once, but that was with someone I already knew and it was always going to happen eventually.
    Pretty much this. Also, I think I do give off this vibe which says "Do not even think about it", and I have been told I'm a ranting feminist
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    I think it depends on how approachable you seem - 'cause i tend to find myself in conversations with loads of random people... nd i'm the fat ugly girl lol but i don't "pull" strangers
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    (Original post by Nooptheloop)
    Pretty much this. Also, I think I do give off this vibe which says "Do not even think about it", and I have been told I'm a ranting feminist
    Actually I've got to admit to being the same - I give the impression of being completely unapproachable. I wouldn't call myself a 'ranting feminist' though, although I suppose I'm a bit of a feminist at heart.
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    (Original post by smilee172)
    I don;t think I've had attention in a club for absolutely ages :'(
    That's not normal. I mean, you look quite pretty in your profile picture, if I may say so without sounding like I'm coming on too hard. :p:

    You must be doing something wrong. Or maybe you're just not picking up the signals?
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    yeah, sometimes. although, I spent most of my first year drunkenly in clubs giving out quite a lot of attention. I'm an amorous drunk.
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    I never get attention when I'm out, but all my female friends are hot so it's to be expected
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    It's difficult, but I'm usually hammered and throwing shapes by the time i get into clubs. I think the crazy, ungainly 'dancing' puts girls off haha!
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    Just my two cents...

    Girls that get the most attention are usually ones that a) are wearing clothing that makes them stand out (in a good way) b) are wearing a smile (you remember that song from Annie, yea?) c) look comfortable and look like they're having a good time d) are active and not just sat in a quiet part the whole night chatting with friends.
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    i don't

    i sometimes prefer it that way :p:
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    (Original post by G50)
    That's not normal. I mean, you look quite pretty in your profile picture, if I may say so without sounding like I'm coming on too hard. :p:

    You must be doing something wrong. Or maybe you're just not picking up the signals?
    She's a mental health (trainee) nurse? I would have thought that's just what a lot of these guys need :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by Altruistic1)
    She's a mental health (trainee) nurse? I would have thought that's just what a lot of these guys need :rolleyes:
    I'd love my own nurse (or doctor). :o:
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    I don't really get any attention, well atleast none that i notice. Generally i've had to approach girls when pissed and chat rubbish, from then on it seems either they think i'm acceptable or not. Sometimes the former and sometimes the latter. I think if i never approached the girl, it would be unlikely i'd get anywhere.
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    (Original post by G50)
    That's not normal. I mean, you look quite pretty in your profile picture, if I may say so without sounding like I'm coming on too hard. :p:

    You must be doing something wrong. Or maybe you're just not picking up the signals?
    aww thanks lol :o: - I don't think I'm doing anything wrong, I mean I go out and have a good time with my friends, if someone talks to me I make the effort to talk to them, I'm not unapproachable... but no one approaches me. Still a mystery to me, maybe I've just been in the wrong places at the wrong times (wishful thinking!)
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    (Original post by smilee172)
    aww thanks lol :o: - I don't think I'm doing anything wrong, I mean I go out and have a good time with my friends, if someone talks to me I make the effort to talk to them, I'm not unapproachable... but no one approaches me. Still a mystery to me, maybe I've just been in the wrong places at the wrong times (wishful thinking!)
    I don't know. The guys must be gay or something (not that there's anything wrong with them being that way). :p:
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    (Original post by G50)
    I don't know. The guys must be gay or something (not that there's anything wrong with them being that way). :p:
    haha. I need people like you around me all the time to make me feel better
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    Pretty boys or Pretty girls get attention in clubs.... Also "Hunk-ish/Ripped guys" Get attention in clubs tooo.
    the others have to work for it, get to dancing!!!!! lol. bust a peter-crouch robot on the dance floor for some attention.
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    I play a game where I try and pull a girl with a tattoo, the cooler tattoo the better!!! i LOVE tattoos!
    I can be picky cos Im hawt and a fast-talker

    At clubs you can't expect to get attention without effort! (Unless you are Megan Fox)
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    Im a guy and dont worry ladies I wont be pulling you. Im **** at it, its not that im a freak or anything but im either too shy or too drunk and I dance like a retard too.
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    (Original post by smilee172)
    I don;t think I've had attention in a club for absolutely ages :'(
    Same here. But when I do, I just assume that they are drunk and just want a shag so don't really entertain them. I find the whole pulling in clubs thing a bit sad. It's fine for other people but I personally don't like it.
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    (Original post by Xeren)
    Same here. But when I do, I just assume that they are drunk and just want a shag so don't really entertain them. I find the whole pulling in clubs thing a bit sad. It's fine for other people but I personally don't like it.
    Yeh I guess that's also what I do. Or a guy looks at me/talks to me and they are just so off their faces I don't bother lol. But it makes me wonder where the hell I'm gonna meet someone! Damn.
 
 
 
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