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    I'M FEMALE and YES it would bother me
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    I'M FEMALE and NO it wouldn't bother me
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    I'M MALE and YES it would bother me
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    I'M MALE and NO it wouldn't bother me
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    Would it bother you if you slept with someone who didn't have a lot of sexual experience? (having only slept with 1 or 2 people for example)
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    No. As long as they weren't really cripplingly shy it wouldn't be a problem/put me off at all. If they were, then it'd take work but it doesn't matter. If I liked the person nothing like that would matter.
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    No it wouldn't bother me unless it hurt for the female. Then it makes me feel bad :sad:
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    no not at all. The lower the number, the better.
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    Nope not in the slightest, i wouldnt judge them on past relationships/partners. I would accept them for who they are now and that is all that matters.
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    (Original post by Miss_Scarlet)
    Would it bother you if you slept with someone who didn't have a lot of sexual experience? (having only slept with 1 or 2 people for example)
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    Poll results speak for themselves.

    Nothing wrong with a learning experience :teeth:
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    Not at all. If anything, I'd actually prefer it if they'd only slept with a couple of people. More than one, but less than 5. Thanks.
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    all my ex bfs were alot more experienced than i am and i like it that way...they take charge and show me what to do...simples x
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    pretty interesting results...
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    I hope not...
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    I should hope not, because the person I end with hopefully won't care that I haven't.
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    It would bother me if she was a virgin
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    What about no experience? :x
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    It would bother me if the guy had hardly any experiance...would make two.
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    Wouldn't bother me in the slightest.
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    no it wouldn't bother me
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    Not at all, would be hypocritical for me to say yes though.
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    I'm a virgin, and I'd kinda like to lose mine to another virgin to be honest. But it wouldn't really bother me either way...
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    A few years ago I would have said no, but now I'd say yes, I'm 29 and I don't have fantasies about virgins. It wouldn't bother me if a girl had only had one sexual partner, providing she'd been with him a while as she would probably have had a lot of sex, but I would rather a girl was confident sexually, just because I would feel more comfortable being natural when we were together. That said, last year I did start seeing a girl who was very sexually confident, which I thought was great at first, but it actually made me feel a bit pressurised and less relaxed. I think most people would be most comfortable with somebody of similar experience level to them, although its easier for a virgin to lose it to somebody with a small amount of experience than another virgin.
 
 
 
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