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Would it bother you if someone didn't have much sexual experience?

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i would actually like someone who didnt have experience at all O.O because i didnt... and the lower the number of sex they had the better..

Reply 41

Platinum Mech

Wouldn't be bothered at all. In fact, I'd probably find it a turn on. :biggrin:

Reply 42

evantej

I think it would be more difficult for a particular type of girl to deal with an inexperienced guy but it should not be a problem otherwise. I think a number of given assumptions are simply wrong. You can be fairly experienced but not have many sexual partners, or have had intercourse.

Reply 43

Katie_89

gettin wiv virgins can be fun but they dont give it to ya like an experienced man will

Reply 44

Miss_Scarlet

I\'m amazed by how many people took the poll...
but the results do show it probably isn't a huge deal.

Reply 45

sil3nt_cha0s

Miss_Scarlet

I\'m amazed by how many people took the poll...
but the results do show it probably isn't a huge deal.

more of a deal for girls than boys though...

Reply 46

wholenewworld

It shouldn't matter. Most people learn fast anyway.

I'd prefer it.

I wouldn't want to sleep with someone who was a virgin (unless I really, really liked them) but whether they'd slept with 1 person or 10 wouldn't make much odds to me really

Reply 49

voudreau

It really wouldn't matter but I would consider it a good thing rather than a bad one!

Reply 50

diamondsky99

I'd prefer it definitely.

Also, I kinda want to sleep with a virgin :p:

Reply 51

Anonymous #2

Anonymous

I'm a virgin too, but I wouldn't want another virgin if I'm totally honest. I've only ever been truly sexual with one guy, who had masses of experience and that was the best, he was showing me all sorts of things, yet I was still in control. But at the end of the day it shouldn't matter, it's not just the sex we are entering a relationship for after all, is it?

And for those who said that they want confidence in bed, that guy I was with was a lot older than me and had also had numerous sexual partners before, yet he still said I was good in bed, although I'd not done anything except kiss a guy beforehand. All you have to do is listen and relax, respond to your partner's reactions, and you'll be fine. No need to make assumptions that inexperience will lead to crap sex, or that experience necessarily means great sex.

you got played

Reply 52

200428

I'd be pretty turned off if the guy was too 'experienced' tbh - I don't want to sleep with a man whore.

Reply 53

diamondsky99

Anonymous

I agree, the first blow job I ever gave was apparantly the best he'd ever received. The first time I had sex, was better than the 4 previous partners apparantly. Too much information etc./porn/erotica beforehand had shown me what to do :p:

Or the previous partners were awful in bed... :ningagirl:

Reply 54

Chumbaniya

In the words of Family Guy's Brian talking about inexperienced girls:

"The best thing about these girls is even if you're terrible, they don't know the difference."

Reply 55

georgia

I'd rather it, I think. I definitely wouldn't want to sleep with someone who'd had loads of partners because the odds of them being my kind of person are minimal...

Reply 56

cadaeibfeceh

Well given that most people on here fall INTO those criteria....

Reply 57

Bleurgh

Anonymous

Yeah I guess so. I really don't care that much about their sexual experience, it's much more to do with what kind of a person they are in the first place.