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    Im currently in a similar situation. Not really sure how well its going. I broke up with her (on good terms) about 6 weeks ago and we had been together for 2 years; living together for one of those. To be honest I was totally in love with her and we had plans to get a house and get married after graduating

    We usually chat on the phone about once a week but havent met in person yet (were living in different cities now.) Its going to be very weird seeing her again but the plan is to stay friends. Because i still think shes a lovely girl and she definately has her heart in the right place despite having a few issues. Ideally we'll be able to stay friends and in a few years look back on the relationship and just laugh about how bad we were together.

    Thats the plan anyway. Im not too sure on the details of how its going to happen. And I'm a little but affraid shes still in love with me - which could still potentially **** things up.

    (Oh and awkward! )
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    Me and my ex were friends for all of about two weeks until we started arguing. She never wanted us to be friends.
    I don't think its usually possible... depends on both people I guess and the circumstances behind the breakup.
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    (Original post by riccoles)
    Me and my ex were friends for all of about two weeks until we started arguing. She never wanted us to be friends.
    I don't think its usually possible... depends on both people I guess and the circumstances behind the breakup.
    Im pretty much the same with my last ex, friends for about a month and then the inevitable arguments and all that start. Although, being perfectly honest I KNEW we would never be friends, and for some reason she thought straight away we would be friends despite she was the one who hurt me. I swear, you women sometimes really do make me want to be single for the rest of my life lol
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    (Original post by Footballfiend08)
    I swear, you women sometimes really do make me want to be single for the rest of my life lol
    lol Mate, I wouldn't rush into writing off the female species right away, there are LOADS of brilliant, wonderful and beautiful girls out there.. we just need to look longer and I already am :yep:
 
 
 
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