Boyfriend checking other girls out?

You're saying you don't look at other boys at all when out and about? Not even a peek?

I would definitely care. I have nothing against my boyfriend finding other women attractive, and I know he thinks other women are fit and will look at him- but him staring at them when you're with him is just humiliating, especially if the women can see. It's embarassing, and he shouldn't do it. If he has to look then he should at least be subtle.

You and icn06 hit the nail on the head there! This is exactly what I'm trying to get across but I think most people are misunderstanding it a little.

I have no problem with a brief glance or look. we all do that, we all find others attractive. However he doesn't just give a quick look, he looks, keeps looking and then even turns his head to keep checking her out. he makes it completely obvious. sometimes the women have noticed then (the woman) looked at me.

like i said, that woman serving us gave him such a disgusted look for staring down her top. (and she wasnt wearing anything too showy either)

I see a girl with a massive pair of boobs and you expect me not to notice, espicially if shes in front for a while, you might not understand but it is difficult, i wouldnt look too much into it though.

I'm not really hurt by it but it bothers me a little.

When I'm out and about with my boyfriend, every time an attractive girl walks past, i notice him checking her out. he doesn't mean anything by it but sometimes he even turns his head to keep looking then quickly looks away to not get caught by me. i pretend i never noticed but i do.. and sometimes it makes me feel like not enough. those girls must be thinking "wow, he's with his girlfriend and he's checking me out".

we were in boots and this blonde woman at the counter with a large chest was serving us. she was putting the stuff in the bag and the whole time my bf looked at her boobs, like stared directly at them. She noticed and gave him a funny look..

would you care?

it just annoys me that my 21 year old boyfriend is acting like a teenager who never gets laid. i understand that men look but his eyes are completely fixed on certain women in front of me.

am i over reacting?

Sorry, but in my opinon, you are not over reacting. I'm a guy myself and I find it shameful to look at another woman, especially if I was in a relationship. Just sit down and talk to him about his habits. Many guys and girls do this, it's instinctive but he should love you enough to control his emotions.

I was like that in my relationship but people are different.

I like your sig (mainly why i posted) but i think it needs some

He looks, you look, we all look. Nothing wrong with appreciating an attractive person.