If it's obvious enough that the girls he's checking out are noticing and he turns his head then that sounds over the top to me. Apparently though, men and women see differently. Women have wider peripheral vision to protect their young and men have tunnel vision that they used to help them hunt but mean they have to focus more directly on something.
Don't ask me how scientists know this lol!
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Boyfriend checking other girls out? watch
- 08-08-2009 22:24
- 10-08-2009 01:38
boys will be boys. simple as
- 10-08-2009 01:39
What are you expecting him to do? Cover his eyes incase he might see another girl?
(Original post by Anonymous)
- 10-08-2009 10:51
I'm not really hurt by it but it bothers me a little.
When I'm out and about with my boyfriend, every time an attractive girl walks past, i notice him checking her out. he doesn't mean anything by it but sometimes he even turns his head to keep looking then quickly looks away to not get caught by me. i pretend i never noticed but i do.. and sometimes it makes me feel like not enough. those girls must be thinking "wow, he's with his girlfriend and he's checking me out".
we were in boots and this blonde woman at the counter with a large chest was serving us. she was putting the stuff in the bag and the whole time my bf looked at her boobs, like stared directly at them. She noticed and gave him a funny look..
would you care?
it just annoys me that my 21 year old boyfriend is acting like a teenager who never gets laid. i understand that men look but his eyes are completely fixed on certain women in front of me.
am i over reacting?
Granted he probably shouldnt be so obvious, but it's a myth that people suddenly stop finding other people attractive just because they have a bf/gf.... Just do the same... he'll soon stop doing it in front of you...