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    Basically how do I stopped being so needy
    Because That is basically what i've been told and sometimes feel

    Anyone got any answers? ?
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    When you ask someone if they like you or are they mad at you, ask it once and never again.
    Other than that, think before you speak?
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    Um... just stop it.
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    AFAIK being needy is part of an individual's personality and hard to prevent. Back away?
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    (Original post by Jacobdatz)
    Basically how do I stopped being so needy
    Because That is basically what i've been told and sometimes feel

    Anyone got any answers? ?
    I used to have this problem but now I'm free of this disease... so don't worry, it's curable... :yes:


    I assume it was a girlfriend who told you this, so I will answer accordingly ...

    You are needy because you are insecure about her. You need the constant reassurance that she still likes you. This is understandable but... this isn't healthy.

    When somebody chooses to be with you, they do so for a reason. If they didn't want to be with you they wouldn't still be with you now. What you cannot do is be needy else the person whom you are pining after will get bored of this and leave you. A constant pleading for attention will drive any sane person away.

    I know it's a hard cycle to get out of but it is doable.

    Best of luck :rolleyes:
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    just dont sound needy :p:
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    My dear boy, the wonderful thing about humanity is its variety. Sadly, you are a loser. You are destined to be unpopular, and to not attract hot women.
    This is the way of the world my poor friend.
 
 
 
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